Long term TTC & infertility
How long have you been TTC?
Oct 11, 2011 12:54PM
Long term TTC & infertility
How long have you been TTC I am now onto month 40 with not even a slight chance of a BFP!!
Oct 2, 2011 1:04PM
34 months.....sigh......with 1 m/c after 9 months. At least with my stupid cycles, its not 34 disappointments. Just continual.....hmmmm. Not sure which is worse!!!
Oct 2, 2011 1:49PM
We are on our 15th month this month.
Oct 2, 2011 3:03PM
37 months for me, 1 mc in feb and 1 in sept!! Oh my it's a long old road..sometimes wonder why I put myself through this heartache. X
Oct 2, 2011 3:23PM
18 months for us. Managed six periods in that time so a really straight forward!!!
Oct 2, 2011 3:29PM
22 months, and, in the style of munchie and windy, managed 2 periods in that time, so at least none of this 2ww madness like last month.
Oct 2, 2011 4:14PM
Coming up to 36 cycles
Only took 3 months the first time which ended in mc and only 1 month the 2nd time which gave us our beautiful daughter in 2007.
Oct 2, 2011 4:23PM
It is horrible, I have not had any signs of a BFP let alone anything like you ladies have sadly gone through. xx
Oct 3, 2011 12:03PM
Ahh ive just sat and counted it in terms off months... and we have been ttc for..... 49months!!!!! Wow thats a scary figure.. and we have had 49 dissappointments! Well thats a lie tbh.. because at the start we werent properly trying and we have had a few months out inbetween at different times.. Im really beginning to give up hope!! Struggling these days...
Oct 4, 2011 7:35AM
Mrs Cupcake we will get our BFP soon enough. Never ever give up hope. xx
Oct 4, 2011 11:47AM
We have been TTC for 36 long months now, having regular AF's throughout that time. No peaks/highs or a whiff of ovulation (so i think anyway hehe).
Am hoping our fertility consultant will help us soon
Oct 4, 2011 1:28PM
Been TTC 29 months xxx
Oct 4, 2011 1:42PM
Hugs to you all we will get our BFP!! Real soon. xx
Oct 4, 2011 3:22PM
Oh heres hoping Michaela...
It has too be our turn soon eh xx
Oct 4, 2011 5:54PM
Chatted to a colleague today - she randomly told me that she was trying for 12 years! Had her first at 37, second at 39!
Just a little encouraging!!!
Oct 5, 2011 6:13AM
Hey, yet another person on the fb forum has fallen pregnant!!
When will it ever be my turn? Sat in tears. xx
Oct 6, 2011 2:29PM
36 months for us. no bfp yet. ov regularly. 30 day cycle. hubby sperm fine. apparently i'm stressed and need to stop thinking about it all.....HAHAHAHAHA yeah ok then!!!!!
Oct 6, 2011 4:40PM
I feel bad being so down after reading all your stories as its only been 16 months for me, thats since my mmc, but like the others until I started clomid I had 70 day cycles! Its so hard so goodness knows how you all cope you should all be proud of yourselves and heres hoping for your happy endings soon xxxxx
Oct 6, 2011 4:49PM
Hope you're doing ok Michaela it's really tough, I've been in tears tonight too.. Sister in law had 12 wk scam today and kindly sent me a pic.... I should have been 10 wks this wk. When will it be my time I'm finding this so hard. X
Oct 7, 2011 2:05PM
Hi ladies....17 months for us, 2 mc in that time. I'm 41 so time is not on my side ( I'm am lucky in that I have 2 grown up( well I should say older) sons. Last mc was only a few weeks ago and it has left me with a feeling that this was not something I was meant to have. We have decided that we are not going forward with any fertility treatment or any further investigations. What will be will be. I feel that the last 17 months has been lost to cycle days and OPKs, temperature taking and blood tests, bfps and devasting losses...lastly, something that I hope I never have to experience ever again....INTERNAL SCANS....especially when they are followed by " I'm sorry to have to tell you ....". It's just too hard. I wish you all success and hope that you don't let life pass you by while you wait for your wishes to come true xxx. Sorry this turned into a bit of a rant, guess I'm still a little raw, lots of love Tracy x
Oct 11, 2011 5:02AM
40 long months for us with no sign of a bfp anywhere.Just finished crying and hubby trying to console me on the phone as hes not here with me
. Its just so damn difficult. I keep asking when my turn will be. Im usually so optimistic but i've had a really shitty morning. Its taking too damn long.Lifes not fair at all.