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PMA desperately needed!
Hey girlies,
I have to say I feel a little in no man's land at the moment as I'm not really meant to be here, but I can't go back to ttc as it's full of people I don't know anymore! I'm on month 10 of ttc and my sister who got pg first month of trying is due in two weeks. My cousin has also just had a little girl. My periods have started to regulate but while I was getting lots of EWCM when I first came off the pill, I am not getting any now. I'm just waiting for the 12 month date to roll around so I can go to the doctor and demand my 21 day bloods as they have been very good at fobing me off until this all important first year point has been passed. I have been reading through the posts on here and everyone seems very pro-active and I just don't feel like I have the energy anymore.
Does anyone have any advice on how to get yourself over this point? I feel so blue and I don't really know what to do. I'm having regular reflexology and I am trying my hardest to eat well, but it just doesn't seem enough. I don't yet take my temperature but to be honest I don't have any other signs of ovulation so I think it would just upset me further if I didn't get the right result.
Sorry to have such a moan as I know a lot of you have been trying for a lot longer, but I just know there is something not right and I am annoyed that I have to wait another 2 months to get it looked into.
Hoping someone has some PMA to spare!
S xx
I have to say I feel a little in no man's land at the moment as I'm not really meant to be here, but I can't go back to ttc as it's full of people I don't know anymore! I'm on month 10 of ttc and my sister who got pg first month of trying is due in two weeks. My cousin has also just had a little girl. My periods have started to regulate but while I was getting lots of EWCM when I first came off the pill, I am not getting any now. I'm just waiting for the 12 month date to roll around so I can go to the doctor and demand my 21 day bloods as they have been very good at fobing me off until this all important first year point has been passed. I have been reading through the posts on here and everyone seems very pro-active and I just don't feel like I have the energy anymore.
Does anyone have any advice on how to get yourself over this point? I feel so blue and I don't really know what to do. I'm having regular reflexology and I am trying my hardest to eat well, but it just doesn't seem enough. I don't yet take my temperature but to be honest I don't have any other signs of ovulation so I think it would just upset me further if I didn't get the right result.
Sorry to have such a moan as I know a lot of you have been trying for a lot longer, but I just know there is something not right and I am annoyed that I have to wait another 2 months to get it looked into.
Hoping someone has some PMA to spare!
S xx
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I have a little bit of PMA spare...sending it over now hun.
Keep smiling and hope ur feeling better soon.
Sxx
Are you presuming your not OV based solely on not having an EWCM?
I don't think i have EVER got any EWCM and have had my 21day bloods which identified that i WAS OV... so please don't use that as they only basis.
Have you / are you using opk's, cbdm etc etc??
AF is due on xmas day, and i have stocked up today with with green tea, pineapple juice and EPO to start taking to see if that this EWCM next month - so maybe that can help you hun.. Also heard of pre-seed, but personally don't fancy trying that just yet...
In an online article: According to one study, 25% of couples get pregnant in the first month of trying, while 60% of couples trying to get pregnant do so within six months. On the other hand, 75% of couples get pregnant within nine months while 80% get pregnant within a year. Finally, some 90% of couples get pregnant within eighteen months of trying. Some please try to stay positive, keep up with the reflexology if its helping and you'll get a BFP soon hun.... before seeing the Doctor!!.... Bigs Hugs & Lots of PMA xx