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Why do we give ourselves false hope every month?
Maybe it's just me but every month I know the signs that AF is coming - and now, 13 months on I should know better. Ok so I have got better at it, I don't talk about it to my OH any more but in my head when I start spotting for example i KNOW its how my af starts but there's a little voice in my head that says "plenty of people spot when they're pregnant" and it drives me crazy!! I'm on day 27 of a 28/29 day cycle and I'm doing it all day. I know af is on the way and I just want to accept it and move on. Anyone else have this problem or am I going crazy....
Rach x
Rach x
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I've been driving myself crazy trying different vitamins etc... To try and help. This month I will be mainly taking B6 a desperate attempt to lengthen my LP. As I think this was the cause of losing my BFP in May.
i'm exactly the same but without the regular cycles or signs!!!
Wish i could stop we're just going into month 12 and even knowing i have 2 blocked tube, PCOS, don't ov, constant bleeding i'm still convincing myself that because i have awful heartburn today and yesterday as well as dizzyness, a fab fainting spell last week and full (.)(.) i'm pg when i know it would take a miracle and to be honest there all symptoms (other than the heartburn) of the tablets i'm taking to stop bleeding :roll: :roll:
Oh well you can only but
"guilty as charged your honour"
I know far too much about my own body than I care to go into or ever thought I would
Enough said
I keep
*runs off to loo to check knickers for 32nd time today*
"guilty,guilty,guilty, cuff me now officer" hahahaha
i am exactly the same, i seem to manage ot convince myself every month that we ahve done it, not stopping for a moment to think that we only have a 1 % chance of naturally conceiving!!!! lol. what is it??
i symptom spot continously, sometimes tihnk i just make them up lol.
what are we like hey girls??
but lets not forget miracles DO happen!!!!
baby dust to you all
*runs to the fridge,collects her double,double,double sized bar of galaxy and scoffs it on the sofa*
mrs elbrow xx
I have even carried on POAS when I'm in full af mode... and not even cheap sticks... and I still get disappointed when I don't see a smiley face / two lines. If I had a bad drug habit I'd be flushing less money down the loo.
:roll:
So glad this forum is here and thanks so much for your replies girls it makes me realise I'm not mad - despite the crazy lady looks I get from my hubby!
rach x
oh I do exactly the same as you girls, every month I obsess over symptoms and think Im pregnant even though I know Im not because we're just not that lucky! this month im extremely CRAZY because of the mid cycle spotting and now Im nearing af due I think of nothing else. I have stopped boring my OH with it all but havent yet managed to stop torturing myself..............ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Why why why do we do it ladies? we should have learnt by now!!
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