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A very sad update
Hi All,
I have heard from our Sarah today and I have some very sad news and she wanted me to pass it all onto you.
She was rushed into hospital on Sunday and on Monday she had an emergency operation to remove two ectopic pregnancies.
Her right tube has been destroyed and has been removed totally, her left tube is not good at all. Her chance of having another ectopic pregnancy is 20% and it appears that IVF will be her only way of conceiving now, but at present understandably it is far to raw to even think about this at present.
She has come home from hospital today, but is understandly very sore and tired both mentally and physically.
She will be in touch soon but she is going to have a good break so she can recover.
I know you will all join me in sending all our love to an absolutely amazing lady,
xxxx
[Modified by: RachieS on 03 December 2009 14:05:36 ]
I have heard from our Sarah today and I have some very sad news and she wanted me to pass it all onto you.
She was rushed into hospital on Sunday and on Monday she had an emergency operation to remove two ectopic pregnancies.
Her right tube has been destroyed and has been removed totally, her left tube is not good at all. Her chance of having another ectopic pregnancy is 20% and it appears that IVF will be her only way of conceiving now, but at present understandably it is far to raw to even think about this at present.
She has come home from hospital today, but is understandly very sore and tired both mentally and physically.
She will be in touch soon but she is going to have a good break so she can recover.
I know you will all join me in sending all our love to an absolutely amazing lady,
xxxx
[Modified by: RachieS on 03 December 2009 14:05:36 ]
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Please pass on love and wishes for her and her family xxx
This really is so very sad, and I wish her and her husband all the best, and wish her a speedy recovery
Love TW xx
We are thinking of you, and will welcome you back with virtual open arms when you are ready to come back.
[Modified by: *Tink* on December 04, 2009 11:49 AM]
I know everyone feels differently but having had an ectopic last year i can understand what you might be going through right now.
I was a mess for weeks, and it took me 5 weeks to be back to work. I just wanted to lock the door and hide. I really hope you are being well looked after and that your hubby is also receiving some support. If you feel ready i had some amzing support from the girls over in ectopic support. I was logging on nearly every day, hubby thought i was obessed but it got me through the toughest of times.
I know right now you just need to be able to grieve for your lost babies, but you will find the strengh to get through this. You are stronger than you think
I also found some good books that helped. When you feel ready, if you would like to know more i am happy for you to ask anything, (I am also now looking at IVF) and also can recommend the books.
Again, sending you lots of love and (((Hugs)))
Gem xxx
Take as much time as you need. I am devastated for you.
Much love to your and your DH.
Mail me if you want to.
So very sad. I'm so sorry.
xxxxx
Take time to grieve, and we'll be here to welcome you when you feel ready to come back.
Sending you huge ((((hugs)))) and you'll be in my thoughts and prayers xxxx
sending you lots of love and best wishes.
Take care
xxxx
These words will mean nothing to you at the moment because I just can't imagine how you're feeling, but in time I hope you find some comfort in everyone on here's messages and that you gain hope which you have given me so much of and will try for your babies with IVF.
It works for so many people so don't lose all hope, you'll get there, it's just a dreadful battle for you.
so sorry.
LEC xxx
I have sent Sarah an email this morning and passed on all your love and thoughts to her.
xxx
We are all here when you are feeling strong enough.
Sending you lots of love & hugs sweetheart xxx
I hope that you are coping ok and am sending you lots of gentle hugs honey. I'm so sorry to hear this.
xxxx
Im thinking of you at this very sad time.
Lots of Luv n Hugs sweet. xxxxxxxxxx