My baby has died
went for my scan today, and found out that my baby died at 9.1, am now at home, waiting for things to happen naturally, scan person said it died 3 weeks ago, so I should lose it within the next 2 weeks, me and husband are devasted, can't believe my little baby is in me but dead, i can't see how i can face the world at the moment, how can i go to work? i can't stop crying. I wish it was still alive, but it is not
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
I went through the same thing in july. I had a scan at 11wks & found out I was having twins but they'd stopped growing at 8wks.
Its such a devastating thing & nothing anyone says will make you feel better. I just found that with time I'v learned to cope with it better.
Is there no way you can take time off work? You & your OH need time together. I'm sure you could get a Drs sick note.
Take Care
Helen x x
Take care.
N xxx
I found alot of people were uncomfortable talking about it but personally found it much easier if people were more upfront and open about everything.
We planted a tree to remember our baby by and will never forget them, i still think about my baby every day but the pain does lessen.
Stay strong and take care.
Lots of hugs xx