2nd missed miscarriage
I had a miscarriage 3 yrs ago, started brown spotting at 8 weeks, went for a scan & there was only a sac measuring 5 wks. I hadn't miscarried naturally so had the tablets but they didn't work so I had to have a d&c.I had just split up with my ex the week before I had my bfp so I think the stress of that had a lot to do with it.
I am now happily married & had been ttc for 5 months.At 8 weeks I started spotting again so expected the worst but this time the scan showed our baby & the heart beating away. We couldn't beleive it & were so happy. 11 days later I was still spotting (brown not red) & had a small clot so went back for another scan. The scan showed that the heartbeat had stopped & my baby had died.
I have been sent home for the weekend to see if aything happens naturally but I don't think it will. Looks like I will be back in hospital next week for the tablets again but hopefully this time not the d&c.
So devasted that this has happened again. Both times I have had no red blood & no cramping just dark brown spotting. The only difference this time is I got a heartbeat.
Luckily I have been referred to recurrent miscarriage clinic as both have been missed & are very similar. I am hoping that they find some answers & that they can fix whatever it is & that it's not just bad luck. Don't think I could go through a third.
Has anyone else had similar??
I am now happily married & had been ttc for 5 months.At 8 weeks I started spotting again so expected the worst but this time the scan showed our baby & the heart beating away. We couldn't beleive it & were so happy. 11 days later I was still spotting (brown not red) & had a small clot so went back for another scan. The scan showed that the heartbeat had stopped & my baby had died.
I have been sent home for the weekend to see if aything happens naturally but I don't think it will. Looks like I will be back in hospital next week for the tablets again but hopefully this time not the d&c.
So devasted that this has happened again. Both times I have had no red blood & no cramping just dark brown spotting. The only difference this time is I got a heartbeat.
Luckily I have been referred to recurrent miscarriage clinic as both have been missed & are very similar. I am hoping that they find some answers & that they can fix whatever it is & that it's not just bad luck. Don't think I could go through a third.
Has anyone else had similar??
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I know that I will go through so many emotions & I'm just concentrating on 1 day at a time at the moment.
I'm moving house next week so I can throw myself into that to keep ny mind off it.
Really hope all goes well for u hun & thanks so much for your reply. X x X
Fingers crossed we will meet again early next year & both have happy & healthy pregnancies. xx
I had 2 mmcs in 2010 one at 13 weeks and one at 8 weeks. I actually fell pg 11 days after the second mmc and my son is now 7 months old. They never discovered what caused the mmcs and I was almost ready to give up hoping. I wish you all the best!
I am now 11 weeks pg and had my dating scan a few days ago and we have a lovely baby with a heartbeat and although I still have no reason for my mc's I am starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I really hope you get some peace of mind from your tests, but sometimes they just don't find a reason. Good luck with it all xx
hello all - this is a late reply, i had a missed misscarriage in feb - no sign of probs till 10.5 wks and symptoms low had slight brown bleed then nothing then heavier bleed 3 days later went to epc to find out baby stopped growing at 7wks 5days waited to miscarry naturally over 3 weeks had 3 major bleeds and still had to have erpc (which was fine) =just found out today that at 11wks 3days (12 week scan) that little one didnt make it past 5weeks and no heartbeat - my body gave me small warning of slight browny discharge yesterday morning so was expecting the worse today and had it confirmed....hugs to all of you who know this pain - want to try one more time but unsure i could continue if happened again - i have a beautiful 18month old and two older children...