Missed miscarriage :(
Had two early scans because of cramping at 4 and 7 weeks, both showed a positive development and heartbeat. I now should be 11 weeks and had some light spotting Tuesday night, I rung my local epu and was sent for a scan on Wednesday morning. Unfortunately that mourning I woke up to red blood and severe cramping, the scan showed a missed miscarriage, the baby had died at 8 weeks. I'm heartbroken, I have a four year old daughter and felt ready to give her a sister/brother. I chose to have a d&c on Thursday but was able to naturally miscarry Wednesday night. I feel like it gets harder as the days go on, everyone around me are having babies or pregnant and I can't stop crying. What makes it worse is that seeing the heartbeat at the early scan made me think everything was going to be fine, so I told so many people, now I have to explain over and over what has happened. Sorry for the essay I just really need some advice on how to come to terms with a loss, I feel helpless at the moment and can feel myself taking it out on the people around me, feel like they are getting sick of me going on about it xx
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Hugs to you, X
sorry iv only just got the chance to come on here!
thank you so much, so sorry for your loss as well.
i hope your ERPC went okay and you are coping well, i think the hardest thing for me is going from pregnant to not so quickly, i miscarriage naturally the day before i was booked to have the op. the only worry now for me is going back next week to make sure every things gone, feel like i cant move on until then and its very frustrating. but after days and days of crying i think im finally at peace with it all, unfortunately our little angels just wasn't ready for the world.
my daughter is four and i know the feeling of wanting to give them someone to grow up with. i am already so desperate to try again, im not going to try for another but were also not going to play 'safe', i think my body can decide if its ready. are you thinking of trying again anytime soon?
i wish you all the best for the future, let me know how you get on xxxx