7 weeks today and bleeding...... Miscarriage number 4 :-(

3054 · Apr 4, 2012 6:58AM

After seeing a heartbeat on Friday at 6+2 I started bleeding last night, red spotting at first then red blood like a normal af, still red spotting this morning

woke up this morning and all of my symptoms have vanished, had some yesterday so totally vanished overnight..... I have to ring hospital at 8:30 to arrange a scan, but I already know this is all over again for the 4th time...... I'm totally numb and heartbroken...... How can they say there is nothing wrong with me after 4 miscarriages in a row..... I'm never going to have my baby

I will update you all after my scan but I will be leaving after that as I just can't go on!!!!

tashelby · Mar 14, 2012 4:16AM

Oh 3054....don't know what to say!!! WTF!!!!! This is just so unfair. I wish I had some words of comfort for you but I dont think they exist. I can't believe this. Surely this just can't be bad luck, 4! You are in my thoughts pet, wish I could do more xxxxx

KimmyS84 · Mar 14, 2012 5:02AM

Saw this on the homepage and didn't want to r & r. I'm so so sorry you are going through this, it's just not fair for one person to have so much heartbreak

Have you had tests where they have told you that there isn't any reason for your MCs? I totally agree that 4 isn't right, and they really need to look into this in much more depth

Big hugs to you xxx

Bubs_Pleasexx · Mar 14, 2012 5:08AM

3054 I truly am so sorry you are going through this again. It really is so cruel. Thinking of you today.

Lots of Love

Tara xxx

MrsKH72 · Mar 14, 2012 5:28AM

Oh hon my heart goes out to you. Its just the most terrible feeling in the world and so so cruel to have to go through this again.

If you haven't already had tests done, I would really recommend you trying to get a referral from your GP to the recurrent miscarriage unit at St Mary's London. They really know what they're talking about.

I've also had 4 mcs and am currently being monitored by them.

Sending you huge hugs honey

xxxxx

Autumn_79 · Mar 14, 2012 9:01AM

So sorry 3054, dont know what to say. Thinking of you and your OH at this awful time. Take care.

xx

3054 · Mar 14, 2012 10:48AM

Oh ladies thankyou for all your support but my bean is a fighter..... Had my scan and everything is good!!!!

there was a lovely heartbeat and I measured 7+3 which is three days ahead..... I've never cried as much in my life

she did find the bleed, it is away from the pregnancy and is small so shouldn't cause me anymore problems.

I'm sorry for the false alarm but I was convinced it was all over again..... I now know never to give up on my tough little bean and I am going to be positive from this moment on.....

Thanks for all your kind words x x

JessiePud · Mar 14, 2012 10:56AM

Ooh 3054 I saw this on the side bar I'm so so so happy that everything is ok with baby. You must feel so relieved, little fighter you have there. Take care hun xxx

KimmyS84 · Mar 14, 2012 11:58AM

I'm so so pleased for you hun!! x

MrsP · Mar 14, 2012 12:22PM

3054 - that is wonderful news! Have a wonderful pregnancy! xx

Blue_xStarx · Mar 14, 2012 12:32PM

I am so pleased for you. You have ninja bean! Ibig hugs x

tashelby · Mar 14, 2012 2:44PM

FANTASTIC NEWS PET!!!!!

When I was messaging you this morn I wanted to say that bleeding isn't always the end, and that symptoms come and go all the time, but felt you probably wouldn't want to dare hope things may be ok. I'm absolutely delighted for you xxxx

KittleLitten · Mar 14, 2012 5:47PM

oh my goodness, I'm so happy for you that everything is OK! hang on in there bean!! xx

s-evans · Mar 14, 2012 6:29PM

So happy and relieved that everything is okay. You definitely have a strong one in there.

Bubs_Pleasexx · Mar 15, 2012 5:14AM

Ah wonderful news - so pleased for you

xxx

MrsKH72 · Mar 15, 2012 12:17PM

How fantastic!!!! So so happy for you hon xxx

Virgo2188 · Apr 1, 2012 3:15PM

So pleased to hear it was good news!! I bled with dd after an mc first time round and was totally convinced it was over again! The bleed she found had gone by my 12 week scan and all was fine throughout!

So glad to hear you finally have some good news!

xx

(Formally lady2188 from 2010!)