3rd time unlucky :(
i'm so sad at the moment...just started my 3rd miscarriage
i have a nearly two year old little boy so when he turned 1 we thought we start trying again and got pregnant the first month. I was literally pregnant for a week and then my period started so that was a chemical pregnancy. about 3 months later i was pregnant again with all the symptoms and got to 10 weeks when i had a tiny bit of spotting, went straight to hospital and as soon as they turned the scan on they lady told us it's not good news. she showed me the screen the sac was there but there was nothing in it!!!!! i was like, where on earth is the baby?? i never heard of blighted ovum, i can't believe your body can play such tricks on you...you go till nearly 12 weeks with feeling sick, bloated, nauseous....and with no baby there as my body didn't want to miscarry naturally i had the D&C the same day as my 12 week scan was booked
then we tried for a few months to get pregnant but it wasn't happening and i didn't understand why as i always caught so early then i worked it out!! after the operation noticed i hardly had any CM so we bought some preseed and first time trying it i got pregnant the third time....10 days I knew that i'm PG and then the spotting started again...i'm quite upset, can't believe it's happening again....i haven't even signed on to the due in forum and i'm glad i didn't. so the journey continues....hope it's 4th time lucky next time! sorry my post doesn't really make sense i just needed to get it out. thank you xxxx
i have a nearly two year old little boy so when he turned 1 we thought we start trying again and got pregnant the first month. I was literally pregnant for a week and then my period started so that was a chemical pregnancy. about 3 months later i was pregnant again with all the symptoms and got to 10 weeks when i had a tiny bit of spotting, went straight to hospital and as soon as they turned the scan on they lady told us it's not good news. she showed me the screen the sac was there but there was nothing in it!!!!! i was like, where on earth is the baby?? i never heard of blighted ovum, i can't believe your body can play such tricks on you...you go till nearly 12 weeks with feeling sick, bloated, nauseous....and with no baby there as my body didn't want to miscarry naturally i had the D&C the same day as my 12 week scan was booked
then we tried for a few months to get pregnant but it wasn't happening and i didn't understand why as i always caught so early then i worked it out!! after the operation noticed i hardly had any CM so we bought some preseed and first time trying it i got pregnant the third time....10 days I knew that i'm PG and then the spotting started again...i'm quite upset, can't believe it's happening again....i haven't even signed on to the due in forum and i'm glad i didn't. so the journey continues....hope it's 4th time lucky next time! sorry my post doesn't really make sense i just needed to get it out. thank you xxxx
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I totally expected that I was going through mc number 4 but so far so good. I know how difficult it is to be positive after previous losses but bleeding is not always a bad thing!!!
I really hope this is not another mc for you... Everything crossed for a positive outcome for you x x
to be honest i wasn't even going to go to the doctor as i just thought this must be it but now reading your reply i probably will go...i do have quite a lot of bleeding but no pain which is quite strange but i'm preparing myself for the worst. the annoying thing is the doctors don't even count chemical pregnancies as miscarriages so they won't give any test
wishing you a happy and healthy rest of pregnancy hun and thanks again xxx
Hope they get you some answers, and if it is bad news please push for testing, I had to fight tooth and nail for my referral to liverpools womens hospital and they are a great support to me right know.
You deserve some answers. Good luck x x
Fingers crossed that baby is okay.
i told my mum today that i'm going to docs then i told her that i was pg again but only for a few days and she showed absolutely no sympathy or that she cares...upset me a bit (( xxx
I am from Birmingham, but was referred to St Mary's after my 3 mcs by my birmingham hospital consultant at local EPAU department
Hello, i know this post is really old but I'm going through the same thing this is going to be my 3rd miscarriage in a row I don't have any children and I start spotting them it gets heavier and I'm afraid it will be like this this time too, would you have menstrual cramps when you bled?