Silent miscarriage after ivf

Hi i am new to this site and thought it maybe helpful for me and others who have sadly gone through a silent miscarriage. I had ivf treatment and all was going well had a scan at eight weeks and there was our tiny baby on screen with a very strong heartbeat. We were a little bit worried as the baby only measured 7 weeks 2 days but the nurse was not concerened as it was very early and hard to make it out properly on the screen. We went away very happy but i was a tad nervous as it was our first pregnancy. I had got all the good signs, tender breasts and morning sickness and my belly had started to grow, i had a lovely warm feeling inside aswell. At 9 weeks 3 days that evening i had a strange dream about my midwife coming and doing an internal test to hear the baby's heart beat. She was using strange tools and it was all done in my spare room. As she was examining i said be careful you are going to far and as i said it in my dream i woke up suddenly with an eletric shock feeling in my stomach. I was scared but as i had the dream and only felt the pain for a few seconds i went back to sleep only to have the same dream again with the same feeling. In the morning i kept thinking about it but was not in pain and had no bleeding. Speaking to everyone about it they said it was common to have very strange dreams and don't worry as it will only stress the baby out. I tried to put it to the back of my mind and slowly i felt better about everything and got more morning sickness and really felt pregnant. Then what should have been the best day arrived, our 12 week scan i thought i was 11 weeks 4 days. We went in the room got the gel on the stomach and silently waited for those words look at the screen there is your little on. Instead those words never came we got i am sorry but i can't find a heartbeat. I totally freaked out it was like i was in a dream or it was a film this could not be happening to us right now?! Our little one had passed away two weeks ago right about the time i had the horrible dream. I felt guilty that i had done nothing even though nothing could have been done for our little one. We decided to have the op done to remove it as it had already been clinging on for two weeks and just wanted our baby to be at rest. It has been the worst time of our lives but are so greatful for the joy our baby gave us for this short time. We will never give up on the dream and our first baby will never be forgot. Has anyone else been through this and had a dream or eletric shock feeling? Here if you need to chat.