Miscarriage at 46
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Hi ladies. . I've read some of your posts and am so sorry you are going through this... It' one of the hardest things to go through... I found out I was pregnant again at 46 and was super xcited and nervous .... Miscarriage for some reason never crossed my mind (I was concerned about down syndrome) as it's more likely to happen at my age.... When I went in for the 7 week ultrasound and heard "I'm sorry there's no heartbeat" I was devastated.. Weve been trying for almost 3 years to get pregnant again. . . Im scheduled for a D&c next week and am going through so many emotions........ Ive also had a previous miscarriage before my 2nd daughter.... Family is telling me to grieve first and if it seems right to try again.... Am I being selfish to even consider it? Is the risk of another miscarriage the same because of my age? If anyone has any experience with this or advise please let me know....
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I'm afraid fear never goes away. I'm terrified of bfp I'm terrified of being pregnant again, I got one child and it was very hard pregnancy mentally. Until the end I couldn't stop anxiety. But it was all worth it. I think having a little break and coming to terms with urself is what u need. That will help you with the decision what to do.
I wish you all the best no matter what u decide, it will be a good decision coz it will be ur own decision and it is ur life and only u know what's best for you. Hugs
Thank you. . .speaking with you has helped me more than you know...