Partner not keen on trying again
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Being still early days as still not miscarried naturally but bleeding for 8 days ,myself and partner have discussed what to do from here ,up to now he has said whatever I want to do we will do etc till tonight he has said after having 2 miscarriages and it hasnt worked he isnt keen on ttc again as fear of it happening again and I totally agree with this fear as I feel the same but I think the reason I'm finding I'm coping with this 2nd miscarriage reasonably ok is the fact I thought we would be trying again , no one knows the future or if it will or wont work out ,such a scary thing to do or not do ,I'm totally confused by the prospect of deciding anything right now
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I have suggestion. What about u exclude him totally from ttc thing and just have sex or initiate it regularly and see if he will take precautions or not. Maybe he will give in naturally, even if not straight away maybe after short break?
I understand second mc is harder than first, because u still hope it's not a pattern but in the same time it terrified ur one step away from it being a problem. I don't have advice for u, u gotta find ur own way to deal with it. But I think more natural approach as I sugestested without talking and planning would be best. Just guide him with temptation and see what he does about ejaculation. X