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Struggling
I am really pleased for all the BFP's on ttc but I have to admit I am really struggling with it especially the ones that get their BFP's straight away, like hi I am new to ttc and I think I'm pg. There have been loads this week and I genuienly am pleased for them but can't help but feel why not us. I feel like such a bad person to write this. I wouldn't take what they have away I wouldn't wish this on anyone. Then I just read in mc support, you may have seen, Helen has just mc'd for the 6th time and I feel selfish for feeling this way I have only lost 1. I really feel bad for posting this but I have to get it out. I hope you don't all hate me. I am wondering if I should have a break from here for a while ;o( I am all PMA'd out. Feel like we haven't been able to try for ages which is completely not true we did try after the mc. It doesn't help that my sister, sister in law and best mate are all pg and all I get is babies babies babies.
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Really sorry to hear your feeling so down, noone would think bad of you for feeling like this, i certainly feel like this. Over the last week there has been so many newbies on TTC and as you say alot of them getting BFP as soon as coming off the pill etc. Its sooo hard. My best mate is pregnant and due in 2 weeks (we started trying same time) and i know what you mean babies babies.
**sending socks lots and lots of pma**
Take care socks hope you feel better soon.
XXX