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My head's all messed up!!
Hi Ladies,
Well i had my mc on Wednesday morning. And i have only bled for 3 days (i said 4 in another post but i got my days muddled up :lol
Went back to work Saturday evening for the first time, which i was nervous about at first but it was fine.
Whilst talking to my colleague he mentioned that i could still be, i explained about the plop in the toilet and the big clot that i saw which i was sure was the baby gone.
Even my hubby still seems to be holding a bit of hope after speaking to his mum who had very similar with him.
Now this morning, i had a phonecall from the EPU to go for an internal scan to check whether the lining has gone back to normal etc and even she started asking whether i still felt symptoms etc after i told her i only bled for 3 days. I said to her i just don't know how i feel.
Could it be possible?
My head is doing somersaults trying to think all of this through.
Well i had my mc on Wednesday morning. And i have only bled for 3 days (i said 4 in another post but i got my days muddled up :lol
Went back to work Saturday evening for the first time, which i was nervous about at first but it was fine.
Whilst talking to my colleague he mentioned that i could still be, i explained about the plop in the toilet and the big clot that i saw which i was sure was the baby gone.
Even my hubby still seems to be holding a bit of hope after speaking to his mum who had very similar with him.
Now this morning, i had a phonecall from the EPU to go for an internal scan to check whether the lining has gone back to normal etc and even she started asking whether i still felt symptoms etc after i told her i only bled for 3 days. I said to her i just don't know how i feel.
Could it be possible?
My head is doing somersaults trying to think all of this through.
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Only thing I can tell you is not to get your hopes up to high till the scan. I know how hard it is. Last month after a chemical pregnancy I did a test after my 'period' I saw the clot which would have been pregnancy material and still did the test. I was hoping it would have been twins etc, needless to say it wasn't. It is possible, but very unlikely.
The only thing you can do is wait for your scan, when is the appointment? xx
I was fine until all these questions and predictions were fired at me.
I am trying not to get my hopes up as i really don't think there is a little one in there but there is all those words in the back of my head niggling away.
Esp as they made me panic last night as i was lifting heavy stuff which did give me slight stomach pains but i think my tummy is still a bit tender from the spasms from the mc
xx
Jacqui
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Yes Wednesday does seem ages away!! I'm worried about finding the EPU at the hospital or even the hospital itself!!! I've only lived down here since 07 and thankfully have never had to go there. Could be an interesting journey lol
Going to go shopping afterwards though - need to get hubby his Easter Egg
They took a blood sample to check my hormone levels but still waiting back for those results.
When I last saw my doctor he did say that as this was my second mc that I may get a slightly earlier mw appointment next time.
I did say last week that I'd probably wait a couple of months before ttc again but how I'm feeling now I think we'll definately start ttc after next af, just don't know as yet when that will arrive. I know I could start now but I keep a close record of when I start af etc so I can get dates etc worked out.
Thank you ladies for all your support xx