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I've Lost Another Precious Bean
Hi girls, it's with a heavy heart that I'm back with you.
Had heavy bleeding since Wednesday evening and passed alot of clots on Thursday. Baby with heartbeat was present last Monday but my scan today has revealed that I've had a miscarriage. I'm devastated. This is my fourth loss. I suspected that I had but I just feel so low. Obviously this is the million dollor question but why is this keep happening? I've asked to see the Consultant again. The tests came back okay after my last mmc but there's got to be something they can suggest. I'm wondering whether I'm not producing enough hormones becuase I've never felt especially sickly with any of the pregnancies. I'm going to ask them about that anyway.
Going to try again as soon as possible - decided I'm not going to wait until I've had a period because that's done me no good in the past.
I'm going to take the rest of the week off work becuase I couldn't stand having to deal with arsehole clients and have some time to come to terms with this and my mother's death recently.
Hopeng we all get our much wanted BFPs in the coming months and that each and every one of them is the stickiest ever, x
Had heavy bleeding since Wednesday evening and passed alot of clots on Thursday. Baby with heartbeat was present last Monday but my scan today has revealed that I've had a miscarriage. I'm devastated. This is my fourth loss. I suspected that I had but I just feel so low. Obviously this is the million dollor question but why is this keep happening? I've asked to see the Consultant again. The tests came back okay after my last mmc but there's got to be something they can suggest. I'm wondering whether I'm not producing enough hormones becuase I've never felt especially sickly with any of the pregnancies. I'm going to ask them about that anyway.
Going to try again as soon as possible - decided I'm not going to wait until I've had a period because that's done me no good in the past.
I'm going to take the rest of the week off work becuase I couldn't stand having to deal with arsehole clients and have some time to come to terms with this and my mother's death recently.
Hopeng we all get our much wanted BFPs in the coming months and that each and every one of them is the stickiest ever, x
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Def def def speak to a consultant and see what they say and hopefully they can have some answers for you.
Do whats right by you and if thats TTC straight away then do it, as you say waiting the one cycle hasn't helped.........
Yep take rest of week off and just have some you time for you - oh hun am just so sorry, what an awful time for you at the moment. xxx
I agree def push this with your consultant and ask for more tests, at least that way you'll at least feel like you're getting somewhere to some answers.
Treat yourself well this week, lots of choccie and snuggly pj's. I agree ttc again if thats right for you - I did as well, made me feel a bit more proactive. Really hope you get some answers or big extra sticky bean soon!!! xx
Sending you lots of hugs
xxx
I'm so sorry to hear your news, to go through it four times must be so hard, I really hope you get some answers - can understand not wanting to wait for AF, sending you lots of warm wishes and a very, very sticky BFP soon
Daisyx
Have you seen Clarie1234's post about Hughes Symdrome? It might be worth taking a look and speaking to your dr about?
I can totally understand you not wanting to wait for AF and to be honest I didn't wait either - I honestly think that if your body is ready to get pg then it will.
I'd definately ask to see the specialists again - surely there must be a reason?
So sorry again,
Kristen xx
[Modified by: kristen77 on July 13, 2009 05:53 PM]
i dont think it ever gets easier. Dont give up hope hun. It will happen for you, Your babies are just not ready to join you yet, when they do it will be extra special, This is what i try and keep with me on a bad day,
Sending big hugs
Love Koala X X