Is anyone dreading Christmas or is it just me :(
Hello
I haven't really been on here for a while although have been keeping up with you ladies froma distance. I had a MMC at the end of May at 8 weeks and would have been due over the Christmas holidays. Despite our best efforts I am still not pg (it took a year the first time) and I am really worried about Christmas. To make it worse my SIL was due a few weeks before me and has salied through her pg so will have her new baby on Christmas day.
Even seeing decorations in a shop or thinking too much about what we might do over Christmas fills me with panic. and starts me crying I can't really avoid my OHs family but also cannot face the thought of it all either. It's not all down to SIL of course but it makes things seem worse. Unfortunately OH parents not well either so he will want to see them at xmas so only option is going or staying on my own....
Was anyone else due around xmas and feeling like me or am I just over-reacting??
xx
I haven't really been on here for a while although have been keeping up with you ladies froma distance. I had a MMC at the end of May at 8 weeks and would have been due over the Christmas holidays. Despite our best efforts I am still not pg (it took a year the first time) and I am really worried about Christmas. To make it worse my SIL was due a few weeks before me and has salied through her pg so will have her new baby on Christmas day.
Even seeing decorations in a shop or thinking too much about what we might do over Christmas fills me with panic. and starts me crying I can't really avoid my OHs family but also cannot face the thought of it all either. It's not all down to SIL of course but it makes things seem worse. Unfortunately OH parents not well either so he will want to see them at xmas so only option is going or staying on my own....
Was anyone else due around xmas and feeling like me or am I just over-reacting??
xx
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Am currently ttc again so fingers crossed that come December we will both have BFP's as well as all the other ladies that are ttc.
Take care of yourself babe, sending you lots of luck & babydust xxx
Definately don't think you're overreacting but hopefully it won't be as bad as we expect, xx
Only thing keeping me going is that we can start ttc again in January x x
You and your OH could spend Xmas Day just as a couple and hopefully necxt Xmas will be very different for you
wish you all good luck in TTC....