Don't feel like I'm really over it...

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• young_mummy2

  Mar 23, 2010 9:38AM

  hi
  i know how you feel i had a MMC last year aswell i found out our baby died at about 6/7 weeks but i found out at my 12 week scan. i keep thinking every now and then then i shud be huge by now and i wiuld have my pushchair etc and no the sex of my baby i would of been due the 15th of june. 8 days b4 my 21st birthday.
  i am very scared now im coming up to 6 weeks as this is when i lost baby last time.
  i think i have moved on but i will never forget my lil baby, i think about them all the time.
  its natural.
  take care hun and dont let it upset you 2 much we will never forget them but we need to keep calm for the ones we have at the moment.
  
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• laujai

  Mar 23, 2010 2:49PM

  Hi Jo
  
  I think the way you feel is completley normal hun. We move on with our lifes cause we have to eventually try & resume to our normal daily activities but you never forget your lo. Of course there will be milestones to pass as well that will remind you of your loss.
  
  I know alot of the girls here no matter how far down the line they are in new pg's have felt the same & as we have that natural motherly instinct so of course we will worry infact I think from here on we will do nothing but worry about our lo's.
  
  Will you get an early scan to give you some reassurance for this pg xxx

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• littleminx

  Mar 23, 2010 3:05PM

  Hi Jo, like the other girls have said it is perfectly normal to feel like this I am just over 31 weeks and Im still petrified every day that something might go wrong...really hope this is a super super sticky bean this time Love Luc xxx

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• laujai

  Mar 23, 2010 3:18PM

  Luc, Cant beleive you just over 31 weeks wow were does the time go!! xx

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• DangermouseandPenfold

  Mar 23, 2010 3:31PM

  You are definately not alone in feeling like this - for what it's worth I don't think it means you're not over the MMC just that you're human and still upset.
  
  I'm 25 weeks tomorrow and loving being pregnant, having bump etc but I do still have sad days for my lost little beans. My first due date would have been the end of February and I found myself being really ratty that week, not sure how I'll cope when the 2nd comes round in April.
  
  I found the early weeks hard especially up to the 12 week scan but it does get easier to relax and enjoy your pregnancy.
  
  (((hugs))) and sticky dust to you xx

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• JoB81

  Mar 23, 2010 5:37PM

  Thanks for all your replies lovely ladies. Feeling a bit better about it all now. It's nice to know I'm not the only one feeling like this.
  
  I'm hoping to be able to organise an early scan for when I'm 8 weeks. My GP has told me to contact EPU when I'm 6 weeks which will be on Thursday. Hoping I'll feel better after that xxxx

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