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pain after sex??

Hey ladies,

Me & oh have had sex a few times since Rhea arrived, it's bee a bit uncomfy but we have been taking it slowly. Last night however we went a bit quicker (sorry tmi) but afterwards & all day today I've been having pains in my lower abdmon (sp). I had my 1st period last week, however it wasn't as heavy as I was expecting. It was heavy on the monday but on tuesday it had eased off & by wednesday it had gone completely.

I have a gyno. appointment next week to see about my 3rd degree tear, just want to know should I see a doc or just wait & bring it up next week.

Any advice would be great!

Jayne xx

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    Didn't want to r&r. Not really sure what to say. If your still uncomfortable i'd go and see your own gp rather than wait. Even if it's only to put your mind at rest.
    I'm not much help really, sorry.
    Hope things get better for you soon though.
    Karen x
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    I'm not sure whether to get checked out either as I've found sex pretty painful each time and last time there was a spot of blood in my pants the morning after. I had a 2nd degree tear but no check up on it has been offered by the docs and it wasn't part of my 6 week check. I just don't know if its too soon to expect everything to have totally healed and for sex to be pain free 9 weeks on?

    Sorry jayne - I'm no help at all!!!
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