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Doing it again?
So who thinks they will do it all over again?
As soon as Haiden was born I said to her that she wasn't getting any brothers or sisters- I really didn't think I could do that again- it was horrific. But I don't want her to be an only child, and I don't want to waste my maternity clothes either!
Looks like I will have to do it all again!!!
Plus I really miss being pregnant (even though I didn't enjoy mu pregnancy much). Does anyone else feel like that?
xx
As soon as Haiden was born I said to her that she wasn't getting any brothers or sisters- I really didn't think I could do that again- it was horrific. But I don't want her to be an only child, and I don't want to waste my maternity clothes either!
Looks like I will have to do it all again!!!
Plus I really miss being pregnant (even though I didn't enjoy mu pregnancy much). Does anyone else feel like that?
xx
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Jo xxxx
On the other hand I should be pleased I had a fast labour and a really smooth pregnancy but what really put me off being pregnant is the constant worry that everything will go ok, the worry that never goes away until your holding your little bundle and counting all its fingers and toes
Good luck to you brave girls who are going for your second or third.
Gxx
After giving birth to my first daughter I said no way am I going through that again then here I am 3 1/2 years later with a 2 week old baby girl hehe!
Even though it was a straight forward pregnancy I didnt enjoy the morning sickness or the discomfort at the end and even though It was a straight forward labour it was painful in the active stage.
I have recovered VERY quickly this time, (even had sex already) and feeling back to normal, almost missing my bump!
Also at the moment my eldest daughter is quite naughty and she is exhausting, I would say the baby is easier haha
Who knows?
Fiona xxxx
I definitely won't be doing it again.
We had already decided before Caitlin was born that we were having no more and that DH was going to go for the snip. However after such a horrendous experience after the birth (retained placenta and PPH) that has cemented the decision for us both.
Due to the retained placenta I have been told that I wouldn't be allowed to have a homebirth again and after having such a wonderful experience at home I don't think I could have my baby any where else!!!.
I feel sad that I won't have any more babies but know in my heart that its the right choice.
Love and hugs
Clare & Caitlin
2 weeks 3 days old
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Um- Fiona... sex? You have had sex? How the hell have you done that?!! xx
Ive recovered super quick this time and feeling back to normal even the bleeding is minimal, some days Im not bleeding at all.
We had been getting close a couple of nights leading up to it and we felt ready, it wasnt something we planned and I did feel nervous but it was great. OH still fancies me like mad (his words) and has been all over me. He actually made me cry because he has even been saying that he loves my jelly belly and stretchmarks! haha
Took us over six weeks after our first, but I did have stitches and was extremely sore.
Fiona & Ella, 2 weeks 2 days old xxxx
I will be having a planned section next time though as my daughter was a very difficult forceps birth and my son was an emergancy section so although getting over a section is much harder than I ever thought it would be - the blimmin infection hasnt helped! - Im going to go down that route next time.
Especially as James was over 11lbs and babies are meant to get bigger - gulp! xxx
Lisa xxx
But OMG Fiona!! I can't believe you have had sex already. I just told hubby and he said when do you think we will have sex again.....sometime around 2011 I said! xx
Congrats btw, not sure if I got around to all the threads on the due in forum, our days of leisurely reading all posts are long gone i think!!!!
Lisa xxx
Fiona - sex!! Are you allowed?? my MW has already told me not until after 6 weeks as all yr bits and bobs are not 'recovered'
xxx
Even when I was pregnant I kept talking about the next one and my hubby were talking about it this morning! I had a section though, so albeit recovery has been hard, the actual giving birth bit wasn't!
We've also had our first encounter, about 2 weeks after - but it kick started my loss again, so not done it since!
Rach xxx
3 weeks & 2 days
I want to more than ever
Jo xxx
Will you be doing it for the 5th time? xx