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Cant believe im pregnant again im only 2 weeks as the condom split so got the MAP and thought it would be fine, Obv not!
I have 3 yr old and a 19 week old! Panick! We are currently in the process of 'what to do' i dont think i can go through a termination, we have only just moved 6 months ago into a 3 bedroom house, so i think my older 2 will have to share in the biggest bedroom (they are all good sizes)
So much to think about, money, space the fact we didnt want another one only found out yesterday but so confused and torn, keep crying every 5 minutes.
To add to the st ress of it both my previous births were shoulder dystocia which put my kids lives in danger and the second time i heamooraged quite bad. So it would have to be a c-section which im errified about specially the first time they took 3 hours to get my epidural in adn second time they couldnt do it so i had to push a stuck baby out on gas and air
Im soo scared
I have 3 yr old and a 19 week old! Panick! We are currently in the process of 'what to do' i dont think i can go through a termination, we have only just moved 6 months ago into a 3 bedroom house, so i think my older 2 will have to share in the biggest bedroom (they are all good sizes)
So much to think about, money, space the fact we didnt want another one only found out yesterday but so confused and torn, keep crying every 5 minutes.
To add to the st ress of it both my previous births were shoulder dystocia which put my kids lives in danger and the second time i heamooraged quite bad. So it would have to be a c-section which im errified about specially the first time they took 3 hours to get my epidural in adn second time they couldnt do it so i had to push a stuck baby out on gas and air
Im soo scared
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You have 8 months to get sorted,both your children will be older, and it will all click into place. Sometimes the best things in life are the things you didnt plan for. Big hugs xx