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Bizarre woman?!
What do you all think of this?
We were at my nephew's birthday party at a wacky warehouse on Sat and a mum of a 5yr old boy acted very strangely....when they were all singing (not loudly at all) , she held her hands over her son's ears. My hubby raised his eyebrows at me as if to say 'why is she doing that?' and I just assumed he had sensitive ears or was afraid of loud noises or something.
Anyway, hubby asked his sis what the story was...and she said the following:
Mum had had 8mcs b4 having her son and was very protective. She held her hands over his ears so as not to hurt them with the 'loud' singing, she stopped my nephew taking a photo of her son so not to hurt his eyes, she lifted him up from the floor so he didn't have to exert himself, she put his shoes on him whilst he was sat on her knee (fair enough i suppose), she physically escorted him through the door (arms round him) whilst her hubby said 'come on poppet' to him!
Now, I'm not against affection, but sil said she's very overprotective and does everything for him.
What do you think?? I feel sorry for the poor lad as very soon he'll be embarrassed by her actions and may end up resenting her. Or am I too cynical? I love all my kids to bits and wouldn't want them to come to any harm, but will wrapping them up in cotton wool help?
We were at my nephew's birthday party at a wacky warehouse on Sat and a mum of a 5yr old boy acted very strangely....when they were all singing (not loudly at all) , she held her hands over her son's ears. My hubby raised his eyebrows at me as if to say 'why is she doing that?' and I just assumed he had sensitive ears or was afraid of loud noises or something.
Anyway, hubby asked his sis what the story was...and she said the following:
Mum had had 8mcs b4 having her son and was very protective. She held her hands over his ears so as not to hurt them with the 'loud' singing, she stopped my nephew taking a photo of her son so not to hurt his eyes, she lifted him up from the floor so he didn't have to exert himself, she put his shoes on him whilst he was sat on her knee (fair enough i suppose), she physically escorted him through the door (arms round him) whilst her hubby said 'come on poppet' to him!
Now, I'm not against affection, but sil said she's very overprotective and does everything for him.
What do you think?? I feel sorry for the poor lad as very soon he'll be embarrassed by her actions and may end up resenting her. Or am I too cynical? I love all my kids to bits and wouldn't want them to come to any harm, but will wrapping them up in cotton wool help?
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Someone I worked with has a daughter in law that had OCD and would wash everything several times, and was so scared of dirt and germs etc. The lady I worked with said her little grand daughter started showing similar signs as she was obviously taking the signals from her mum. Very sad!
I wonder what her family make of it all? x
The worry must be eating away at her....poor woman.
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I really do wonder how she copes when he's at school, out of her control? Just hope this doesn't affect him or her in the future....