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The worst has happened...am leaving you

MrsKH72MrsKH72
in My baby was born in Dec 2011
I started spotting on Monday - tried to ignore it and hoped it was normal, but it increased and I started miscarrying on Monday night. I was 6 1/2 weeks.

I can't believe it - this is my 3rd miscarriage in a row and I feel absolutely devastated.

I just let myself get a bit excited and felt so positive about this one - my body reacted the right way and I just felt so happy.

Now I'm completely floored, desperately upset and low. When is this going to happen for me???

I hope you are all well and wishing you all the very best for your pregnancies.

Bye ladies

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    ChristyM77ChristyM77
    Oh god I am soooooooooooo sorry for you! I can't believe it has happened to you for the 3rd time.



    I'm currently 8 weeks' pregnant after 3 miscarriages and am expecting the worst anytime too. I haven't seen a specialist yet but before she went on holiday, the specialist gave my midwife a progesterone prescription for me. So far so good, no spotting, but as you yourself know, you never never know...



    Now that you've miscarried 3 times (utterly, miserably awful as it is), you'll now qualify to see a fertility specialist where you live? The problem may be something as ridiculously simple as low progesterone (I say ridiculously, because if women's progesterone levels were monitored each pregnancy as well as HCG levels, maybe more cases would be caught sooner).



    I really, really feel for you right now. As soon as you can, see a specialist and see if they can uncover the issue - hopefully it is something very simple and can be resolved and monitored in your next pregnancy (which will, fingers crossed, happen very soon image ).



    The good thing is, obviously you're rather fertile, so fertility isn't the issue. All my fingers and toes are crossed for you and I hope that you'll be permanently back on a DI board very, very soon! image
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    Carlyplus3Carlyplus3
    No advice hun but wanted to offer hugs.



    I hope this happens for you soon.



    Take care of yourself xx
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    KazzieMKazzieM
    So sorry for your loss but thought I'd share this with you just in case it could be worth investigating. My friend had 4 miscarriages before successfully having her 2 sons. As it turned out all the children she miscarried were thought should have been girls and the problem was her DNA was so close to her husband's that when they conceived a girl the XX code was reading a genetic error and causing the body to reject it.
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    KazzieMKazzieM
    So sorry for your loss but thought I'd share this with you just in case it could be worth investigating. My friend had 4 miscarriages before successfully having her 2 sons. As it turned out all the children she miscarried were thought should have been girls and the problem was her DNA was so close to her husband's that when they conceived a girl the XX code was reading a genetic error and causing the body to reject it.
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    Gem24Gem24
    i am so so sorry for your loss, i just wanted to send hugs and wish you all the very best for the future and hope that one day it does work out for you xx
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    hedgiehedgie
    Oh hun, I am so sorry. I wish I had a wand, I would make the world be a place where mums all held healthy babies at the end of trouble free pregnancies. My thoughts are with you and your dh.



    I hope for many better tomorrows for you.



    xx
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    broodychopsbroodychops
    so sorry to hear this hun, thinking of you

    xxxx
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    lilypeachlilypeach
    I am so so sorry, how awful for you. My thoughts are with you, sending hugs xxx
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