How to say no???
Ladies i need some help on this one...
Both me and hubby only have our dad's around and its the first grandchild for both so obviously they are both very excited. My dad so much so that he has asked if he can come along to the 20 week scan.
Me and hubby are going to find out the sex of bubba and so was looking forward to that special moment together but now I feel that the moment wont be as special with dad there.
I know that sounds really horrible and i do love my dad to bits. I felt that I couldn't say no to him because he has been through such a bad time over the last few years the baby is something that he is really looking forward to.
I,m hoping that the hospital has a policy on the number of people allowed in to watch!!!
Both me and hubby only have our dad's around and its the first grandchild for both so obviously they are both very excited. My dad so much so that he has asked if he can come along to the 20 week scan.
Me and hubby are going to find out the sex of bubba and so was looking forward to that special moment together but now I feel that the moment wont be as special with dad there.
I know that sounds really horrible and i do love my dad to bits. I felt that I couldn't say no to him because he has been through such a bad time over the last few years the baby is something that he is really looking forward to.
I,m hoping that the hospital has a policy on the number of people allowed in to watch!!!
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Thats a difficult one.
Could u maybe tell him u have had ur letter through to confirm ur appointment and tell him it says on there u can only take one person with u?
xxx
I think I will go in with hubby initially to make sure bubba is fine then ask if dad can join us
meaning everyone will be happy, including me...