Anyone else had a pre scan panic???
My scan is this Friday but I don;t know what's come over me today but I'm feeling on the verge of tears about the fact that I'm going to go to my scan and there won't be a heartbeat. I am *trying* to tell myself that it's just pre-scan nerves and not mothers intuition but I am feeling so freaked out right now.
It is just nerves isn't it??? Tell me the rest of you felt like this before your scans???
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It is just nerves isn't it??? Tell me the rest of you felt like this before your scans???
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I think it's natural to be worried especially if it's planned & it's taken a while to get that positive result.
Let us know how you get on. xx
I know it is all just worries when I think about it logically but I can't shake this feeling of aprehension...
Glad you got to see your bubs early though Lounmark
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At the moment I'm really looking forward to my 12 week scan, but I reckon nearer the time I'll be bricking it again. I'm hoping that I will be more relaxed as I saw the baby last week and all was okay so my risk factor is way down now
It's funny isn't it, when you see some women at their scans they look so relaxed and you wonder don't they worry the same as you? I actually think some people don't though. It's the mentality that "it won't happen to me". I don't have that because it has happened to me
I'm sure you have nothing to worry about, but I'm equally sure that me saying that won't help you at all- when is your scan? x
I've been desperate to get pregnant this time but when I started spotting again last week I thought the same was happening again but all was fine. I'm still worried coz i'm still spotting but it's just one of them things that I don't think we'll stop worrying about until we have our little baby in our arms.
Also on the preg symptoms, I had them early on but mostly they disappeared after a few weeks, the midwife said it can just be in your head that you are having them, you look for signs because you are pregnant.
Fingers crossed for you on friday. Let us know how it goes. xx
Hope ur scan goes well on friday feebs. cant wait to see pics
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I hadn't told anyone I was pg except hubby obviously as I couldn't face telling people it had gone wrong. I had a mc last year and haven't td anyone about that either. Just don't want their pitty I guess.
Anyway, baby was fine, scan was amazing!
Now 14 weeks and have no symptoms except slightly sore boobs so I don't feel pg at all just now! Can't wait for a big bump and getting kicked all the time so I know all is well!!
Try to relax (I know it's not easy) and all will be well and you'll see your wee bub soon! x
I had a MC before my DD, so it's always a possibility in my eyes. My hubby asked me earlier if I was excited for tomorrow because he is, but I told him I was a bit nervous. I know the odds of having a miscarriage after having a successful birth are very low. I'm sure everything will be fine though as i've had very strong symtoms this time
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all was fine though and that feeling of relief was immense when they said theres 1 live baby
have to say though had the same panics about the 16 week check and that something will happen in between but def remember being like this last time , then when they start moving you worry when they go quiet .. think its just the norm from now on in to worry about them
GOOD LUCK FOR TODAY
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Anyway will update his afternoon! My scan is at 10.40
Good luck to yountoo BS mummy!!
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My EDD was only out by one day too so I'm now due on 23 rd June.
Baby wouldn't cooperate for the NT scan so I have to go back for that on the 19th so can't completely relax however I feel soooooo much calmer than I did the other day. It's really real!!!
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I did find it reassuring to know that we all feel the same panic and intuition is bollocks!
In reality of course, im sure id have been devastated. I had to put my scan off for a week despite really not wanting to (but couldnt get out of work, and due to my attitude mentioned above, didnt want to tell my employer). Then when i had the scan i was 14 weeks - so a week on to what i thought - so not only was i keeping one live baby warm but was also in the 2nd trimester!! then i believed it and allowed myself to be happy and tell everyone.
i never had a bump till mid 20 weeks and never had symptoms at all, not even tiredness. At the end he was crushing my bladder and making me uncomfortable, but i think that was down to his size!
I had a beautiful, healthy 8lb 13 oz boy 3 days after my due date (despite looking small and measuring under all the way through, with no pregnancy symptoms, lol).
Glad it all went ok for you, have a wonderful pregnancy x
i was told my little one might be on the small side and he was 8 lb 13 oz and came a day early
have been warned to expect an even bigger baby this time .. hopefully i wont go overdue lol
again i have been very lucky (so far ) with no real symptoms and no sickness etc , have been no more tired than i always am with 1 year old running around . havent got a bump or anything yet (although i am still carrying lots of weight from gfirst baby so prob wouldnt notice ) so hoping im lucky and dont get huge again xxx