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do you feed lo to sleep?
Just wondering what order you do your bedtime routines in? Ive always fed Max last as it makes him calm and sleepy-he's usually almost asleep when i put him in his cot.
Im not sure if this is bad as he can't breastfeed himself to sleep forever! Should i change the order and feed first then do book/ wash etc after? I don't think this would go down very well!xx
Im not sure if this is bad as he can't breastfeed himself to sleep forever! Should i change the order and feed first then do book/ wash etc after? I don't think this would go down very well!xx
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She is very sleepy if not asleep (9 times out of 10 she will be asleep) when we wind her, either way she just goes straight down now, we used to have to sit in the rocking chair and rock her for 10 mins or so but she seems to have grown out of that now!
She sleeps through the night 7.30pm til 8.30am so I now she can settle herself to sleep. She sometimes wakes later in the evening 10pm ish and we hear her on the monitor crying a bit but if you leave her a few mins (no longer than 5) she settles back to sleep herself! I think I use to disturb her more rushing to her straight away when maybe she was just dreaming or something!
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Amelia does wake in the night, not for a feed, but can't always resettle herself so I have to get up and give her her dummy back.
Its hard to put her down awake though without bringing her bathtime forward which I think would be too early.
MG Mummy - Your lo is good at night, I think I need to be a bit stricter and let amelia cry a little longer before going in if she doesn't settle herself
6:00 Massage which usually ends with us looking out the window for a bit (I'm going to replace this with dinner from next week)
6:30 Bath
6:50(ish) Dried and put into sleep suit and sleeping bag for the night
7:00(ish) Bottle
7:10(ish) Story
7:15 (ish) Put into bed, usually awake, and his mobile turned on.
We can often hear him fussing for a few minutes but I leave him for 5 minutes before going to try to soothe him. 4 times in 5 he will put himself to sleep. The fifth time he will still be hungry or need to burp and will go to sleep on my shoulder before being put down again.
He still wakes at least twice a night for food and is now starting to have to be put down awake after his nighttime nappy change. This is a real pain as he chats loudly to himself but he did eventually put himself back to sleep at 4:30 this morning and slept through until 7:30 which is encouraging.
I wouldn't worry too much about putting him down sleepy if not actually asleep. Once he is properly on solids you might want to see if he is using the night feed as a way of getting himself to sleep but at the moment he definitely needs the nutrition so there isn't much you can do, really.