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Clingy - is it just a phase?
Evening ladies
Please tell me this is just a phase because Freddie is awfully clingy at the moment. He's absolutely fine with his daddy during the day but at night if he's unsettled he gets worse if OH goes to him and only calms again when I'm holding him. He cried the other day at a friends house because I nipped to the loo - he's been there loads of times and is usually fine with her. Today went to watch my godson's swimming lesson and his mum was holding freddie - i was sat next to them and he went into meltdown til I had him back again!
I'm panicking because he's due to start nursery at the beginning of August and just now the thought of it is sooo traumatic. Is it just Freddie or are other Nov babies doing this?
Thanks
Welsh xx
Please tell me this is just a phase because Freddie is awfully clingy at the moment. He's absolutely fine with his daddy during the day but at night if he's unsettled he gets worse if OH goes to him and only calms again when I'm holding him. He cried the other day at a friends house because I nipped to the loo - he's been there loads of times and is usually fine with her. Today went to watch my godson's swimming lesson and his mum was holding freddie - i was sat next to them and he went into meltdown til I had him back again!
I'm panicking because he's due to start nursery at the beginning of August and just now the thought of it is sooo traumatic. Is it just Freddie or are other Nov babies doing this?
Thanks
Welsh xx
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Ty can get like this, especially with MIL which is sooooo embarassing. So I just say he's tired all the time, even though he's not. It depends what mood he's in. Although with my mum and dad you would think i wasn't there !!!
I'm abit worried about it as he starts his nursery taster sessions on Tuesday, they just want me to drop him in, stay for 5 mins and then leave, even on the first one..... Am dreading it.
Apparently separation anxiety is something which can start from 6 months and does eventually disappear.
Hope so anyway..
Sarah
I think it just proves our babies just really love their mummies at the minute. Plus I wouldn't be too concerned about nursery I think the other babies may help with the distraction.
Big hugs xxx
I think I read somewhere about having to go off to work at this stage and its a good idea to start practicing saying goodbye at the door (waving etc). Freddie may get upset when you leave him at nursery but once he is distracted Im sure he will be fine hon. Im sure the staff are well experienced with it and it wont be as big an issue as you fear it will be.
x
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Em x
Sarah, I can't believe they're suggesting you only stay 5 mins at Tyler's first taster session! Freddie and I are due to go for a couple of full morning sessions to break him in gently - please let us know how you get on
xx