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Got to say goodbye
Hi Ladies
Unfortunately on Friday I suffered a miscarriage at 11 weeks. As some of know I suffered some spotting from Monday and on Thursday it turned into proper bleeding. I went to A&E and they said my womb and cervix were closed plus I still tested postive in a pregnancy test. However on Friday we had a scan and discovered that my pregnancy had ended at 5 weeks but my uterus had carried on growing.
They told me to expect heavy period bleeding but unfortunately it happened very quickly and I collapsed and had to go to hospital Friday night. I won't go into the details because I don't want to upset anyone. I came out of hospital today and am feeling ok and positive about the future. Everything is fine body wise, I have a beautiful little girl and am looking forward to trying again in a few weeks.
I just want to wish you all fantastic and healthy pregnancies. Having a baby in November is just wonderful and I hope you enjoy every minute of your pregnancy, labour and being a mummy. If I could leave one piece of experience with you, it would be don't forget to do your pelvic floors!
I look forward to popping back in November and hearing all about your new arrivals.
Love Egg x
Unfortunately on Friday I suffered a miscarriage at 11 weeks. As some of know I suffered some spotting from Monday and on Thursday it turned into proper bleeding. I went to A&E and they said my womb and cervix were closed plus I still tested postive in a pregnancy test. However on Friday we had a scan and discovered that my pregnancy had ended at 5 weeks but my uterus had carried on growing.
They told me to expect heavy period bleeding but unfortunately it happened very quickly and I collapsed and had to go to hospital Friday night. I won't go into the details because I don't want to upset anyone. I came out of hospital today and am feeling ok and positive about the future. Everything is fine body wise, I have a beautiful little girl and am looking forward to trying again in a few weeks.
I just want to wish you all fantastic and healthy pregnancies. Having a baby in November is just wonderful and I hope you enjoy every minute of your pregnancy, labour and being a mummy. If I could leave one piece of experience with you, it would be don't forget to do your pelvic floors!
I look forward to popping back in November and hearing all about your new arrivals.Love Egg x
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Lots of love and take care of yourself honey xxx
Take good care of yourself hun and hope to see you back in a due in forum soon.
Xxxx
I guess the thing is we had almost a week to prepare for the worst then when we saw the scan we realised that it wasn't even a foetus, it was the bud so it wouldn't have even had a heartbeat. I'd like to think (without sounding too religious or spiritual!) that whatever soul was going to be in that bud is still in my body now so when I get pregnant again that baby will still be baby number 2 but would have taken a bit longer to come out.
Again without giving all the details the last three days have been pretty traumatic, my blood pressure went down to 74/36 and I almost ended up having a transfusion so I'm just glad to be ok and grateful that there is no permanent damage done.
Also I already have a beautiful toddler so I got to go home to her and my husband. All the crying in the world won't bring back my pregnancy even though it helps to have a cry, so for the next 6 weeks at least I'll be eating pate, goats cheese, a few glasses of rose wine and I'll be getting my nails done! x
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I am so so sorry to hear this. What a terrible shock. I had a MMC, found at out 8 weeks it had stopped growing at 5 weeks. Also ended up in A and E. I am thinking of you and carrying you in my heart. Take care of yourself.
Lots of love,
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