Bad news :'(

KittleLitten · Feb 6, 2012 6:17AM

I miscarried the other twin today, so am leaving this lovely group. Absolutely devastated. And it took us a year as well to conceive, so who knows when it will happen again

I might pop in on all you lovely ladies in a bit to see how you're all doing if that's OK?

xxx

featherychicken · Jan 31, 2012 3:44PM

Oh kittle I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how you must feel. Look after yourself and I hope it happens for you soon. Take care and keep in touch if you feel up to it x x x

Gift · Jan 31, 2012 3:50PM

I'm so sorry to read this hun, you are such a strong woman - whatever you do don't let this loss stop you from trying to conceive again when your ready to as sometimes fear might step in. My thoughts are with you are your beautiful angle twins, you will get though this. Take things easy and if you feel you need to grieve then do whatever you feel comfortable doing, it's better to talk it out that keep your emotions all bottled up.

(((biggg huggs))))

jumpingzebra · Jan 31, 2012 4:12PM

so sorry for your loss. Dont give up u r more fertile just after a mc.

Hope u get lucky again soon take care

Sezra · Feb 1, 2012 5:35AM

sorry for your loss big hugs and love your way xxxxxxxxxxx

kat_1986 · Feb 1, 2012 5:40AM

I'm so sorry to hear of your bad news

sending you lots of (((((((hugs)))))) thinking of you xxxx

emmabelle · Feb 1, 2012 6:37AM

Hi kittle, I have just found out Ive had a mmc. It must be doubly worse for you losing twins. I'm sat here at home now not knowing what to do. Just waiting to see if/ when things will start happening.

If it brings any comfort to you I found out a couple of things when I went to epac today. One is that there is evidence that pregnancy rates are higher within 6 months of having a mc. The other is that most women go on to have a normal (edited as it came out with the opposite wording on my original post due to stupid auto spell )pregnancy after. And there is nothing you coud have done to stop it from happening. I really hope you go on to ave a successful pregnancy and have my FC that this time next year we will both have our much wanted babies,

Take care xxx

MummyEms · Feb 1, 2012 7:41AM

thinking of you Kittle and sending HUGE hugs x x x x x x

mumma22beauboys · Feb 1, 2012 7:42AM

so sorry to hear your bad news kittlelitten, sending hugs your way xxxxxxx

KittleLitten · Feb 1, 2012 12:32PM

Thank you everyone for your kind words, so sad I can't see this through with you all!

brandnewwifey so sorry to hear about your mmc. So are you planning to wait for it to happen naturally? I'm kind of happier mine went that way rather than having an op.

I heard about the more likely to have a successful pregnancy within 6 months thing too, fingers crossed that happens for us both

xxx

emmabelle · Feb 1, 2012 12:51PM

Hi,

How are you feeling now? Im glad i didnt find out at my 12 wk scan i think that would have made it even worse.

They want me to wait a week before they do anything because they said its standard practice to do a second scan a week later to double check it hasn't got any bigger. I have looked again at my dates and I think I was actually more like 10+5 because I was using a sensor that told me I ovulated on 7th December so with such a large gap and that there was no hb I know I've lost it. But basically I'm hoping that nothing else happens until next week so I can have the erpc op because I'm terrified of the pain. Fear of the unknown really x

Hrose73 · Feb 1, 2012 3:56PM

I'm so sorry to hear this awful news kittie you must be devastated!

I hope that in time you and your oh can get over this and go on to have a successful pregnancy.

My thoughts and prayers are with you both xx

BethJL · Feb 1, 2012 4:28PM

So, so sorry Kittle. Sending you lots of love and hugs. xxxxxx

KittleLitten · Feb 1, 2012 5:15PM

Thanks.

Bnw I don't feel so bad now, hopefully now the worst of it is over and we're looking forward to trying again. I won't lie the natural m/c was painful, physically and emotionally, especially when I passed the 2nd baby yesterday

saw it there, heartbreaking.

Then I thought that would be the worst of it but i spent an awful 10 minutes today in the loo of some random cafe, kind of half-seated half hanging off the door swearing under my breath.

Hmm i thought I was being all natural and in tune with my body, but writing that down and thinking about it again maybe it would have been a bit better to have the op. They didn't give me that option though as my body was already doing it, and the thought of the op scared me a lot. Another fear of the unknown I guess.

Hope you're OK and that the erpc goes ok

xxx