can anyone admit they wanted the other sex?
i have been through exactly the same J and it is horrible, my husband would not even discuss it... it took a lomg time for me to deal with but eventually i fell again and had my second healthy little girl, you wont ever forget but when you fall again and have a healthy baby it eases the pain, and im sure if you stay positive you will have a great future pregnancy.
Take Care
Alex
Take Care
Alex
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I would also still love a little boy and as you said in an ideal world i would have one of each, dont feel guilty about wantin the other sex, its normal and its like when your pregnant and everyone asks you what you want and everyone says they just want a healthy baby, i didnt, i said i wanted a boy and everyone looked horrified, why the hell did they ask then?!? After Ellie was born everyone was saying that i must be dissapointed and so on but i just said i wasnt, and i really wasnt but at the early stage i just didnt care at all as my pnd was almost immidiate. x
If you feel like this I would talk to your HV as you may have form of PND. It is normal though to want a boy or girl and to feel a bit cheated if you dont get what you want BUT as we cant control it we have to accept when we get preg that what will be will be. However, try googling how to conceive a girl and follow any advice......it may work???
good luck and congratulations on your son.
dxxxx