Lonely
Hi Ladies
I havent been on for a while, i sometimes feel as if being a mummy is the loneliest job in the world. Friends i use to be friends with arent interested and trying to make new ones is so hard. Families etc are so busy now getting on with there lifes. Some days are better than others but each day is still a struggle. Hope the rest of you are doing ok.
I havent been on for a while, i sometimes feel as if being a mummy is the loneliest job in the world. Friends i use to be friends with arent interested and trying to make new ones is so hard. Families etc are so busy now getting on with there lifes. Some days are better than others but each day is still a struggle. Hope the rest of you are doing ok.
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It will help to talk, be it to HV/GP/Other mums. Try looking at www.netmums.com as they focus on your local area, have a 'local-to-you' message board with adverts for you to meet up with other mums local to you, events suitable for you & baby to attend together, for me it was a godsend in finding new 'mummy' friends to meet up with & share mummy tips & child playdays.
Best wishes hon & above all else keep talking, the more you let the feelings out the better you'll feel.
I have never been more lonely than since I became a mum. I hate leaving the house and i'm not very good at mixing with people I dont know. I just feel like the real me is lost under 'being a mum' and im screaming to come out.