Just found out and terrified!
Hello all, just joined the site as I have just found out I am nearly 6 weeks pregnant at the age of 35 (hurrah!) and this time last year I miscarried around 8 weeks.
So I am very scared and finding it difficult to relax and going to the loo about 4 times every hour just to check I'm not bleeding...
Anyone have any tips on how I can calm down? I know that relaxing would help, but to be honest I am really having to focus on deep breaths just to bring my shoulders down from around my ears, and keeping normal at work when I really don't want ANYONE to know just yet is proving very difficult.
Oh yes if all goes well this will be my first child, and would be interested as well if anyone has any definite views on flying; I know the official advice is to avoid it after the 2nd trimester, but I'm kinda not wanting to take any chances at all right now....
Sorry for rambling, but really finding this site useful and hoping the collective knowledge will help!