Feel like I am losing my mind xx
Hi Ladies
Not sure if this part of the forum gets much traffic these days but I am desperate for some advice. I actually feel like I am losing mind, I am just over 4 weeks & feel like I am destined for another miscarriage. I have no symptons whatsoever and I am spending a small fortune on tests, even done 2 today ! 2! in 1 day!! What the hell is wrong with me? I don't know how I am going to cope if I miscarry for a 3rd time , I just need to calm down but I cant. How did you all cope these first few weeks?
Please help the loony lady
Thanks
Tara xxxx
Not sure if this part of the forum gets much traffic these days but I am desperate for some advice. I actually feel like I am losing mind, I am just over 4 weeks & feel like I am destined for another miscarriage. I have no symptons whatsoever and I am spending a small fortune on tests, even done 2 today ! 2! in 1 day!! What the hell is wrong with me? I don't know how I am going to cope if I miscarry for a 3rd time , I just need to calm down but I cant. How did you all cope these first few weeks?
Please help the loony lady
Thanks
Tara xxxx
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I know its very difficult to cope in a early stage. I think, because we had a bad experience before, we will never feel safe and that worrying will be all the time. Its natural to worry, but try take it easy. Try to take your mind with the job or all day thinking what you will be nice cooking for the dinner (and baby will enjoy it).
Good look to you and nice to see you here xx
11+1
Like the others have said really, each pregnancy is different. I had 2 mc before finally having my little girl, so it was 3rd time lucky for us.
I too spent a fortune on tests each time (would hate to add it all up!!), but I guess the only advice I can give is just try and relax and keep busy. The first few weeks drag, as do the last few, the ones inbetween seem to go quite quick.
Try not to stress about symptoms, or lack of them, every person is different.
Thinking of you and will look forward to seeing your updates.
Zoe xx
I am feeling much calmer now, I realise that peeing on sticks every day wont change the outcome.
Vestall & Kazzie - Thank you so much for your replies. You have helped me alot.
Mum2hols - You have given me hope, I really do hope its 3rd time lucky for me too . Cannot believe you are 16 weeks already! Hope the sickness gets better soon.
Z - Of course I remember you, thank you for taking the time to reply and I hope you are enjoying being a mummy to your beautiful baby girl.
Lots of love to all of you, thank you again for taking the time to respond.
Tara xxx