ILs..what to do if you just don't like them?
Hm, I think I have hit the nail on the head. I just don't like them.
I hear many many terrible IL stories, so many people seem to have problems. With mine there has been on major incident and a few other little niggles but I think the root of the problem is that I just don't like them and once the big thing happened, every little thing bugs me iyswim? They have been so good to B since I met OH, taking us on as their own family but I shouldn't have to put up with FIL being so overbearing and I can't magically flick a switch to make myself like the MIL. I don't want my children arouind FIL at all but I can't stop it as that is unfair (although according to OH he is on last warning anyway). I don't want it to be like this (
How do you handle this? How do you handle being around people that you have to be around who in other circumstances you wouldn't make time for/want to be with?