Is your partner a good parent?
Mine is, some of the posts I read on here make me realise just how lucky we are.
He works mon-fri but will get the kids ready in the morning and put them to bed at night. He has no problem taking them to any classes inc toddlers and parent participation ones (ballet, ,tumble tots etc) He will take them both out on his own and go without prompting.
When the children were babies he'd be the one up in the night the majority of the time bringing Phoebe to me if she needed fed etc.
Oh and he cooks and does his share of housework too.
I love the relationship the children have with their dad :-)