My son as big brother :)
Just a silly thing.
My son is 17. He's not had it easy for various reasons, and it's a constant source of heartache for him that, despite being 2 miles away he's not ALLOWED to see his dad's kids, his half-siblings.
So he's been really excited about little one coming along. He adores my husband, we all hang out together a fair bit and he wants to be a hands-on brother. He asked me how long I would be breastfeeding for, and whether anyone would mind if he got quite involved in helping to feed once we introduce bottles, he'd like to do regular feeds and winding etc. He seemed so sincere and I assumed it was all tied up with being rejected by his dad & co. I said he absolutely could help, I'd love it and that it was really nice of him. He replied: 'good, because we're studying attachment in Psychology this term and I wanted to test it out'. I read that situation so wrong!!
I might allocate him all the 3am feeds as revenge