I've got hideous morning sickness! Have had it since week 5 and its still there!😐 I don't remember what it feels like getting up and not having to hang over the toilet 😂
I'd have loved to have twins because I want 2 children and id only have to go through pregnancy once! 😂😂
Aw Im so glad everything worked out for you, just you wait til you feel them move its the best feeling ever! I can't wait to hold her and see her little face..
Congratulations both of you and hope you have an easy and healthy rest of your pregnancies... I'll post a picture when she's born 😁 lots of love xxx
Hope you don't mind me joining. Congrats to you all and wow ChelseaJojo twins! Double congrats to you! I hope you all have happy and healthy pregnancies xx
So I MC in January, I was 5+2 when I started spotting and passed the tissue the next day. It was horrendous and I thought it was so unfair. We had been trying for 6 months and had tried so hard to be healthy. Hubby had a SA done in Nov as he had an undescended testicle when he was little and it came back slightly low. As you can imagine we expected it to take a while to fall again but with no AF since my MC I started feeling PG again. Don't know when I ovulated but 28 days (my regular cycle) would've been last Monday so I waited until Thu to test and low and behold I am pregnant again! I really never thought I'd fall that quickly! I've read about so many people falling straight away and also about recurring MC which is naturally worrying me a lot but I feel strangely more relaxed at times. I am delighted to be pregnant and want this baby more than anything but I don't know of I've detached myself a bit? I feel bad I just don't want to invest my emotions so much this time. I feel like I really want morning sickness just to "feel pregnant"! Xxx
i had 2 mc and when I became preg the 3rd time I Detatched myself i couldn't be happy or anything because I didn't want to get hurt if it went wrong but as the weeks went by I felt different from my last pregnancies and he stuck in there and is due soon but until I had my 12 Week scan I felt I couldn't allow myself to become attatched and never spoke about it
its completely natural but if you are worried you can get a reassurance scan privately or maybe ask your gp
Aww congrats Memza .. I know exactly what you mean - I still to this day have had no form of sickness but just have to deal with the other symptoms instead I was the same Hun when found out I was pregnant afree the miscarriage finding out i was pregnant again i just couldn't attach myself or get excited as always had the dread around the corner... I thought I was only like 5-6 weeks when I went to the early scan so to be hit with twins and close to 8 weeks my emotions that was bottled up all came out.. And to see their little heartbeats was the best ever thing.. I can still picture my mum as I came out the clinic room to her in the waiting room telling her the wasn't only one lol!
Just try and relax though and have positive thoughts
Thank you aw I can only imagine the happiness and excitement! We are trying to just take one day at a time and try not to stress etc. Last pregnancy I had joined a "Due in" thread with another girl I speak to on youandyourwedding as she got her BFP the same day as me, I had started reading a pregnancy book that my SIL gave me, worked out a due date etc. and I never even made my first midwife appointment so this time I'm just thinking any extra days are a bonus! The crazy thing is that I wouldn't have even had my 12 week scan yet!
I feel like loads of people are having twins this year such a baby boom it's lovely! Will you find out if they are boys/girls/one of each? Hubby asked me this morning how I'd feel about twins and I remember thinking before "wow that would be scary" but not it just seems a double blessing!
Aww bless you Hun.. It is an awful time to go through .. I sadly miscarried at 5 weeks but I somehow fell pregnant again within two weeks later .. I was off work too signed off sice and little did I know I was pregnant again!! We had a sad Christmas and everything without even knowing! I took all the baby books and put them away and only just brought them back out.
It is amazing hearing everyone's different stories and lots of support through difficult times too.
Well before when we was expecting the first time round my partner and I said we would keep it as a surprise and not find out. We had spoke about names and he had chosen the girls name and i chose the boys name ... But this time round knowing we are expecting twins I sort of changed my mind and although the Mr was in two minds
Oops I replied too soon lol ... So the Mr was in two minds but I have managed to persuade him so we are going to find out he's getting more excited now too and feels finding out would be best.. So much though to sort and lol we need to move out of our one bedroom flat lol...
yes there is a big boom of twins triplets... I have four sets of twins in the family but not my line down the family tree lol... I also read that women who are tall are more likely to conceive twins lol if that's true well that makes sense as I am 5"10 lol
we have our booking appt at 11 weeks and specialist appt the following week as il be monitored more with twins. First scan is 17th march.. Mr doesn't wnt to tell his mum till then but my mum, my best friend and my boss are all aware.
Ah so exciting! The first time round we hadn't told anyone we were even trying to it was hard telling some of our best friends that we'd misscarried before they even knew I was pregnant. So this time round (after saying we wouldn't even tell our mums) I've told a few of my colleagues at work and a couple of friends as well as our parents and my brother and SIL. Moreso because it was so good to have their support the first time and god forbid anything horrible happens again I'd like to know that they are in the loop!
I always told hubby I wanted a surprise and all being well if we can conceive baby no2 down the line I would probably want to know and hubby has said all along that he thinks it's daft to wait! I haven't told him yet but I'm definitely coming round to the idea of finding out this time (if we get there!) I have my first appointment with the midwife on 27th Feb all going well. I just hope these weeks fly in!
I'm such a girly girl and have always said I'm desperate for a girl at some point but now I'm just like I don't care at all as long as baby is healthy!
Doubtful that I would have twins then, there aren't much in either of our families and I'm only 5'2🙈Haha xxx
Also, I meant to ask - how did you get a scan so early was it private or NHS? I had hoped we would get one given the MC but I was under the impression that they don't do anything different unless you've had more than 2 MC xxx
With my miscarriage I was seen twice by EPU so when I had the second appt to see if all had cleared (sorry to say it like that) and they said that when im pregnant again they would be happy to give me a reassurance scan so soon as I found out I was pregnant I got my GP to refer me back into EPU for a one off scan and to find out how far along we were. hopefully you can sort out your scan without going privately.
Congratulations on the BFP! It seems 2017 is everyone's year!😁 I had 2 previous miscarriages so finding out I was pregnant again was a shock I didn't let myself feel anything until I had my 12 week scan! The night before I cried myself to sleep because I expected the worst.. It was the best feeling in the world seeing her little heart beating and her wriggling around! Now I'm counting the days down til I finally get to meet her! 😁 good luck both of you xx
Thank you Jazziiey! Congrats to you too! I really hope that we get there! I have this fear in my head after reading about people having 2 MC in a row that it's going to happen to me, especially as I had no period in between but I do feel quite positive and relaxed so fingers crossed all is well. When are you due? Xxx
ChelseaJojo - that's good that EPU were so helpful. When I got my BFP on Thursday I phoned my EPU just to let them know my situation (they did a scan at the start of Jan to confirm MC) and see they would say and the woman basically just said to phone my doctors just like any other pregnancy I was like "thanks🙄". I really wanted an early scan but have been reading about there being a risk of having scans before 10 weeks so now I'm paranoid and hubby has said it's not worth the risk so will wait and see what the midwife says at my appointment! Have you got your actual due date? I've been nosing on the Due October thread it too scared to join yet! Xxx
I had no period in between this pregnancy and my last MC, that's why I was so shocked when I got told I was pregnant, I thought the surgeon was lying 😂 so I left the hospital and took 100's of pregnancy tests 😂 I'm due on the 27th so 15 days to go, it's dragging so much! I've found the first 12 drag because the scan then the last 2 months drag too 😂 xx
I'm getting fed up of been pregnant as well I just want to touch my toes and shave my legs 😂 I've got till April to wait 😭 But I'm all belly not put weight on anywhere but my stomach
Thanks Emma! Nice nameAw bless you haha how long do you have to go? I'm just 5 weeks today (I think!) no period since my MC but today is 5 weeks from my first day of proper bleeding I think I ovulated around my normal CD16 and I did a clear blue digital yesterday with FMU which said 2-3 weeks.
I feel relaxed most of the time but have these moments of panic i.e. This morning I woke up and had a short sharp pain up my noonie and my bum and I had that the day I started spotting before my MC and I know it could just be a coincidence but it still worries me. Have any of you ladies experience these random pains in early pregnancy? I suppose it will just take my body (and mind!) to get used to these changes!
hope your all ok. Nope not got a due date yet but at EPU on Friday they put me at 7-8 weeks closer to 8 weeks though.. and with twins coming early were guessing like end of Aug early Sept.. but we're know for sure on 17th March.
Not had sharp pains like you described Mensa but growing pains yeah.. double whammy growing pains lol.. i feel so much different this time round with this pregnancy.
Dont read too much into stuff on the internet Hun - if there was anything wrong with early scans they wouldn't provide them. if you do feel you need the reassurance scan there is no harm in asking your GP to re-refer to EPU due to previous miscarriage. My GP was very supportive of this & referred me straight away. EPU was very good too and rang me the same day when they received referral.
Aww Jazziiey not long now - can't wait to hear all about little lady and see a pic
Emma you haven't got far to go too also- wow all the baby weight on your stomach.. I can feel my hips getting bigger and I'm already getting a new work wardrobe lol
Just been talking with my cousin who's friend had twins and they are looking to sell their stuff soon so once I get past the 12 week milestone I am definitely going to be in touch with her! Twin pram's are such an arm and a leg!
That's good then (obviously not that you're sore but that it's pretty normal I imagine) it was only a brief sharp pain that went away but I have read since about other people having the same thing so feel a bit better now (I know I shouldn't Google as it's the devil!)
I will see what the midwife says at my appointment then hun thanks
I really can't wait to have a bump I sooo hope this pregnancy ends in a healthy baby!
That's really handy! I remember you saying you're in a one bed flat - when are you thinking of moving? I suppose you will need to see if the twins are mixed first before deciding what bedrooms you will need etc! Xxx
Hey ladies congratulations on your babies I miscarried in sep of last year and concieved in Oct I'm now 17+3 and due the 22nd July with my second little boy
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i wanted twins when I found out the only symptom i got was very very sore boobs no sickness or anything 😊
Good luck and so pleased everything turned out ok 😘
I've got hideous morning sickness! Have had it since week 5 and its still there!😐 I don't remember what it feels like getting up and not having to hang over the toilet 😂
I'd have loved to have twins because I want 2 children and id only have to go through pregnancy once! 😂😂
Aw Im so glad everything worked out for you, just you wait til you feel them move its the best feeling ever! I can't wait to hold her and see her little face..
Congratulations both of you and hope you have an easy and healthy rest of your pregnancies... I'll post a picture when she's born 😁 lots of love xxx
Hi ladies
Hope you don't mind me joining. Congrats to you all and wow ChelseaJojo twins! Double congrats to you! I hope you all have happy and healthy pregnancies xx
So I MC in January, I was 5+2 when I started spotting and passed the tissue the next day. It was horrendous and I thought it was so unfair. We had been trying for 6 months and had tried so hard to be healthy. Hubby had a SA done in Nov as he had an undescended testicle when he was little and it came back slightly low. As you can imagine we expected it to take a while to fall again but with no AF since my MC I started feeling PG again. Don't know when I ovulated but 28 days (my regular cycle) would've been last Monday so I waited until Thu to test and low and behold I am pregnant again! I really never thought I'd fall that quickly! I've read about so many people falling straight away and also about recurring MC which is naturally worrying me a lot but I feel strangely more relaxed at times. I am delighted to be pregnant and want this baby more than anything but I don't know of I've detached myself a bit? I feel bad I just don't want to invest my emotions so much this time. I feel like I really want morning sickness just to "feel pregnant"! Xxx
i had 2 mc and when I became preg the 3rd time I Detatched myself i couldn't be happy or anything because I didn't want to get hurt if it went wrong but as the weeks went by I felt different from my last pregnancies and he stuck in there and is due soon but until I had my 12 Week scan I felt I couldn't allow myself to become attatched and never spoke about it
its completely natural but if you are worried you can get a reassurance scan privately or maybe ask your gp
congratulations xxxx
Aww congrats Memza .. I know exactly what you mean - I still to this day have had no form of sickness but just have to deal with the other symptoms instead
I was the same Hun when found out I was pregnant afree the miscarriage finding out i was pregnant again i just couldn't attach myself or get excited as always had the dread around the corner... I thought I was only like 5-6 weeks when I went to the early scan so to be hit with twins and close to 8 weeks my emotions that was bottled up all came out.. And to see their little heartbeats was the best ever thing.. I can still picture my mum as I came out the clinic room to her in the waiting room telling her the wasn't only one lol!
Just try and relax though and have positive thoughts
xxx
Thank you
aw I can only imagine the happiness and excitement! We are trying to just take one day at a time and try not to stress etc. Last pregnancy I had joined a "Due in" thread with another girl I speak to on youandyourwedding as she got her BFP the same day as me, I had started reading a pregnancy book that my SIL gave me, worked out a due date etc. and I never even made my first midwife appointment so this time I'm just thinking any extra days are a bonus! The crazy thing is that I wouldn't have even had my 12 week scan yet!
I feel like loads of people are having twins this year such a baby boom it's lovely! Will you find out if they are boys/girls/one of each? Hubby asked me this morning how I'd feel about twins and I remember thinking before "wow that would be scary" but not it just seems a double blessing!
xxx
Aww bless you Hun.. It is an awful time to go through .. I sadly miscarried at 5 weeks but I somehow fell pregnant again within two weeks later .. I was off work too signed off sice and little did I know I was pregnant again!! We had a sad Christmas and everything without even knowing! I took all the baby books and put them away and only just brought them back out.
It is amazing hearing everyone's different stories
and lots of support through difficult times too.
Well before when we was expecting the first time round my partner and I said we would keep it as a surprise and not find out. We had spoke about names and he had chosen the girls name and i chose the boys name ... But this time round knowing we are expecting twins I sort of changed my mind and although the Mr was in two minds
Oops I replied too soon lol ... So the Mr was in two minds but I have managed to persuade him so we are going to find out
he's getting more excited now too and feels finding out would be best.. So much though to sort and lol we need to move out of our one bedroom flat lol...
yes there is a big boom of twins triplets... I have four sets of twins in the family but not my line down the family tree lol... I also read that women who are tall are more likely to conceive twins lol if that's true well that makes sense as I am 5"10 lol
we have our booking appt at 11 weeks and specialist appt the following week as il be monitored more with twins. First scan is 17th march.. Mr doesn't wnt to tell his mum till then but my mum, my best friend and my boss are all aware.
Are you going to find out what you are having?
xxx
Ah so exciting! The first time round we hadn't told anyone we were even trying to it was hard telling some of our best friends that we'd misscarried before they even knew I was pregnant. So this time round (after saying we wouldn't even tell our mums) I've told a few of my colleagues at work and a couple of friends as well as our parents and my brother and SIL. Moreso because it was so good to have their support the first time and god forbid anything horrible happens again I'd like to know that they are in the loop!
I always told hubby I wanted a surprise and all being well if we can conceive baby no2 down the line I would probably want to know and hubby has said all along that he thinks it's daft to wait! I haven't told him yet but I'm definitely coming round to the idea of finding out this time (if we get there!) I have my first appointment with the midwife on 27th Feb all going well. I just hope these weeks fly in!
I'm such a girly girl and have always said I'm desperate for a girl at some point but now I'm just like I don't care at all as long as baby is healthy!
Doubtful that I would have twins then, there aren't much in either of our families and I'm only 5'2🙈Haha xxx
Also, I meant to ask - how did you get a scan so early was it private or NHS? I had hoped we would get one given the MC but I was under the impression that they don't do anything different unless you've had more than 2 MC xxx
With my miscarriage I was seen twice by EPU so when I had the second appt to see if all had cleared (sorry to say it like that) and they said that when im pregnant again they would be happy to give me a reassurance scan so soon as I found out I was pregnant I got my GP to refer me back into EPU for a one off scan and to find out how far along we were. hopefully you can sort out your scan without going privately.
xxx
Congratulations on the BFP! It seems 2017 is everyone's year!😁 I had 2 previous miscarriages so finding out I was pregnant again was a shock I didn't let myself feel anything until I had my 12 week scan! The night before I cried myself to sleep because I expected the worst.. It was the best feeling in the world seeing her little heart beating and her wriggling around! Now I'm counting the days down til I finally get to meet her! 😁 good luck both of you xx
Thank you Jazziiey!
Congrats to you too! I really hope that we get there! I have this fear in my head after reading about people having 2 MC in a row that it's going to happen to me, especially as I had no period in between but I do feel quite positive and relaxed so fingers crossed all is well. When are you due? Xxx
ChelseaJojo - that's good that EPU were so helpful. When I got my BFP on Thursday I phoned my EPU just to let them know my situation (they did a scan at the start of Jan to confirm MC) and see they would say and the woman basically just said to phone my doctors just like any other pregnancy I was like "thanks🙄". I really wanted an early scan but have been reading about there being a risk of having scans before 10 weeks so now I'm paranoid and hubby has said it's not worth the risk so will wait and see what the midwife says at my appointment! Have you got your actual due date? I've been nosing on the Due October thread it too scared to join yet! Xxx
I had no period in between this pregnancy and my last MC, that's why I was so shocked when I got told I was pregnant, I thought the surgeon was lying 😂 so I left the hospital and took 100's of pregnancy tests 😂 I'm due on the 27th so 15 days to go, it's dragging so much! I've found the first 12 drag because the scan then the last 2 months drag too 😂 xx
Wow thats so exciting! I hope all goes well for you
I'm getting fed up of been pregnant as well I just want to touch my toes and shave my legs 😂 I've got till April to wait 😭 But I'm all belly not put weight on anywhere but my stomach
congrats memza89x how far are you? Xxx
Thanks Emma! Nice name
Aw bless you haha
how long do you have to go? I'm just 5 weeks today (I think!) no period since my MC but today is 5 weeks from my first day of proper bleeding I think I ovulated around my normal CD16 and I did a clear blue digital yesterday with FMU which said 2-3 weeks.
I feel relaxed most of the time but have these moments of panic i.e. This morning I woke up and had a short sharp pain up my noonie and my bum and I had that the day I started spotting before my MC and I know it could just be a coincidence but it still worries me. Have any of you ladies experience these random pains in early pregnancy? I suppose it will just take my body (and mind!) to get used to these changes!
Morning ladies,
hope your all ok. Nope not got a due date yet but at EPU on Friday they put me at 7-8 weeks closer to 8 weeks though.. and with twins coming early were guessing like end of Aug early Sept.. but we're know for sure on 17th March.
Not had sharp pains like you described Mensa but growing pains yeah.. double whammy growing pains lol.. i feel so much different this time round with this pregnancy.
Dont read too much into stuff on the internet Hun - if there was anything wrong with early scans they wouldn't provide them. if you do feel you need the reassurance scan there is no harm in asking your GP to re-refer to EPU due to previous miscarriage. My GP was very supportive of this & referred me straight away. EPU was very good too and rang me the same day when they received referral.
Aww Jazziiey not long now - can't wait to hear all about little lady and see a pic
Emma you haven't got far to go too also- wow all the baby weight on your stomach.. I can feel my hips getting bigger and I'm already getting a new work wardrobe
lol
Just been talking with my cousin who's friend had twins and they are looking to sell their stuff soon so once I get past the 12 week milestone I am definitely going to be in touch with her! Twin pram's are such an arm and a leg!
XxxX
That's good then (obviously not that you're sore but that it's pretty normal I imagine) it was only a brief sharp pain that went away but I have read since about other people having the same thing so feel a bit better now (I know I shouldn't Google as it's the devil!)
I will see what the midwife says at my appointment then hun thanks
I really can't wait to have a bump I sooo hope this pregnancy ends in a healthy baby!
That's really handy! I remember you saying you're in a one bed flat - when are you thinking of moving? I suppose you will need to see if the twins are mixed first before deciding what bedrooms you will need etc! Xxx
Hey ladies congratulations on your babies I miscarried in sep of last year and concieved in Oct I'm now 17+3 and due the 22nd July with my second little boy