Ele, my scan is at 1520, so got pretty much the whole day Monday to wait. Of course I'll post a picture, I can't wait for you all to see it. I can't wait to see it. It's starting to all sink in now.
Elexox we had spaghetti carbonara instead because I forgot some ingredients...baby brain kicking in already 😂
Has anyone had any yellow discharge (no smell, not itchy) in early pregnancy, I’ve just had some and last time I did and then started bleeding so I’m really Worried, well I’m in bits tbh, I just called oh to speak to him about it and he sount like he couldn’t care any less ☹️ Now I’m in tears with worry! one day I feel so positive and the next I feel like I’m neber going to have a second child ☹️
Got a scan for the 19th ladies so hopefully will beable to see something. Midwife thinks i defo did mc last time as i then had a negative pt. Wish you all well ladies xx
Hi Narla. Congratulations on your bfp! Try not to worry too much about symptoms. The fact your line came up quickly is great. Also I get the guilty feeling but try not to worry about this. It's normal to still grieve the baby you have lost. You'll never forget them but also remember that this baby is a blessing and a little ray of hope for you.
Missmum2 I agree with the others, I'd go and get some bloods done to try and work out dates etc. 🤞 all works out well for you and you have a super sticky bean in there.
Mummytolily we've bought a few pieces of clothing and have ordered the cot and nursery furniture. Currently trying to decide between wallpapers for a feature walk in the nursery but torn between 4 different ones.
Elexox glad to hear baby girl is doing well. It's cold here too in the North West but no snow. Frost and ice this morning though. I just wanted to get back into bed this morning. In fact I did for 10-15mins haha. I keep saying I thought pregnant people were meant to be hot - certainly not my case haha.
Mrs Fish glad to hear you're doing well. I reckon you're definitely a 💗 and oh dear 🙈 hope they sort their differences out soon haha. Young love is definitely more dramatic lol.
Slinky how exciting about your scan! Not too long to wait now. Hope all goes well. I'l be checking all Monday for your update!
Mummytolily try not to worry too much. I'e had increased discharge since finding out. Mot necessarily yellow but we are all different. Try not to stress and as for OH, he might just be trying to be positive about it all and try not to dwell on things. I'm sure if something did actually happen (wish I hope and pray won't, and I'm sure it won't) he'd be really supportive xx
Lisil, it’s hard to explain it’s not like yellow but just yellow tinged slightly, I know im over reacting, I never had any worries with my first pregnancy! I think I spend to much time thinking of what could go wrong atm and every tiny little thing points to a miscarriage in my mind even things that I know are completely normal, I literally tire myself out with worry
Mummytolily ive had this today only slightly tinged and only noticed as had white knicka on, searched it and irs entirly normal, could be a sign of a yeast infection but most likely a side effect from pregnancy vitamins!
Slinky, yay can't wait to have a peek! Just chat away to us if the day drags hahaha!
Mummytolily, mmmm that sounds lush! Don't cry 🤗 I've had all sorts of dc since my bfp! I posted on my DD page about a thick horrid green/yellow tinged dc only last week! MV said it's all normal and to expect all kinds of dc as long as it's not itchy/smell down there it's all fine 😁 Ride the rollercoaster, I know it's awful I want to get off too but you will get your second child! Men don't really know how to deal with these "women problems", he sounds like how my OH would deal with it... he's probably just as worried about another loss as you are! My OH didn't even want to talk about this pregnancy until after 12 weeks. The dc might even be your cervix sealing shut and the plug starting to form! If you're still really concerned or upset, see your doctor, they are normally happy to help and a health professional may ease your worries. I know the feeling Hun, heck I'm 26 weeks and I'm still stressing and worrying every single day! Not a day passes where I don't worry about losing her, it's all normal and that's why this page exists so we can support each other ❤️ One of the hardest things I've been through in life so far is pregnancy after a loss! I'm sure many will agree. Remember you HAVE to focus on what is going right, you will give yourself a headache all day if you point things to mc. I so flippin know how you feel, this was me 5/6 months ago 😩 I just want to give you a big hug and promise everything will be ok, of course no one can promise that but we have to onto hope and faith 🌈❤️
Missmum, that's great news! Do come back and update us all 😁 How many weeks will you be by then? (I know it might not be exact but a rough estimate?)
Thanks lisil, tell me about it! Bloody freezing 😩 I thought pregnant people were supposed to be hot too! Although take it from me, I had an August baby last time june and July were not fun heavily pregnant. Luckily for the ladies due in the summer this time, we don't really have real long hot summers anymore, maybe that's a bit pessimistic of me 😂🙈
Bobble thank you! I’m glad it’s not just me! It’s definitely not smelly (my sense of smell is through the roof id be heaving otherwise 😂) & it’s not itchy so fingers crossed! I haven’t had any more since but if i get anymore I’ll call the doctor! How many weeks are you now? I don’t know if you’ve thought of this yet 😂 but August is such a good month to have a baby (lilys birthday is 23rd August) that you get to spend every single one of there birthdays with them as they’ll never be at school!
Elexox can I get a little mini you to keep in my pocket? I swear You always know the right things to say! i know You’re right, I’m glad it’s not just me that experienced it, I’ve had no more since! I literally can’t remember anything with the first 20 weeks of lilys pregnancy so can’t remember what was normal with her itll actually be 4 years ago in 10 days time that I got my bfp with her! Feels so much longer ago!
Me & oh have managed to find a day to go to the scan have just had to get my mum to pick lily up from playschool but we will book it for the 14th december so I should be 9 weeks 5 days then so 2 weeks today!
Oh bobble that must be really tough for you today! But hey the days nearly over and you & baby are fine! i Woudnt know what I was looking for with cervix unfortunately so can’t help you there
Elexox I have my 20 week scan nx Wednesday - it seem to have taken forever to come round, as I had been having them every 2-3 weeks, this one has been 5 weeks!! It is nearer 21 weeks, I then have my 24 week scan 3 weeks later on 28th - I think they will start to plan delivery at this stage, so will find out Twin 2 has been absorbed if I can go natural or if still there prob C section!
Mummytolily, I had a lot of yellow when i wipe, I thought it was more because my wee was very yellow - not sure if that is a helpful comment or not! However, I had a lot of increased discharge throughout, which apparently is quite normal. The anxiety is so hard to deal with, you will panic over everything - I still do 😔 And even worse I had my anxiety and negative thoughts confirmed with the loss of one of my angels. However, you have to try and keep positive and strong throughout, rather than dwelling on what was/could go wrong, try to answer back in your head with positive manteas and thoughts - sounds silly I know, but does help xx
Hi @Elexox, no I have a 7 year old so it’s been a while! That’s why I am worrying, I remember getting early symptoms then and with the last pregnancy (miscarriage).
Saying that I have been a little crampy today which is good, and mega tired! I think I am 5 weeks so it’s still really early days.
How far along are you? Is this your first pregnancy?
Bobble how did your test come back? A nice strong positive?
Mrs fish haha that is a very helpful comment! Thank you Mrs fish I will definitely try that! Hopefully it works! I’m 8 weeks tomorrow so only another 5 to go and I’ll be at my miscarriage gestation! Fingers crossed
Missmum, yes you will see the gestational sac (like a black hole) and possible a ring structure inside that which is the yolk sac but no everyones is visible. You may even see the tiny little baby forming 😁
Slinky, Oooo lovely nice and warm!
Mummytolily, ahh my LB is the 4th of August and you're right it's lovely having them all to yourself on their birthday every single year! 🎉 Aww you're so sweet, just remember to stay positive and allow yourself to have bad days! Glad you managed to sort a scan day, here's to counting down the next 2 weeks! 😁
Bobble, happy 5 weeks! Sorry you've had a tough day, it's not nice reliving the mc day. Your cervical position will be ALL over the place atm. Just before I got my bfp, my cervix was hard and the lowest I'd ever felt it! I was convinced AF was about to arrive but I got my vvvvfl instead! Dont stress, it can take a month sometimes even two before the cervix rises high, goes soft and tightly closes for some women. It's probably a good idea to stop checking now as it'll only stress you out 🤗
Mrsfish, how exciting! Sorry I forgot you hadn't had it yet. Fingers crossed they'll confirm girl for you and that she's as happy and healthy as ever! 💗 I admire your remarkable strength, what a woman to be pressing on through everything that's happened. You are a very strong lady!
Narla, aww lovely... boy or girl? I have a 6 year old son so it's been a while for me too lol! Happy 5 weeks to you too! No this will be my third pregnancy but second baby as i had a mc last year November and took us 7 months to fall again with this rainbow. I had a messed up cycle after my mc and wasn't having periods for 4 months after and then not ovulating at all. I'm pretty sure this baby was the first time I ovulated since my mc! Doctors and specialists couldnt find anything physically wrong and were just as confused as I was! But alas, Im growing our darling girl 💗🌈👶🏻
Spent my night in AE with bleeding was really wierd, i wear scrubs but had black knicks on today had slight blood marks on trousers on changing to come home, went to toilet asap and had wee wiped etc and nothing there, nothing since either. Gynae reg seen me and did physical exam neck of womb still shut and no blood present so theyve said for scan in one week at epu so ill be 6+2 by then
Only other thing is i have cyst down there, longstanding issue sometimes ger sebacious cysts down knicker line if unwell or run down, OH thinks it might be one of those bleeding, i dont know if that would be enough to go on onto work trousers though! Just dont undeestand nothing being there when wiping at all.
Laughing cos me and oh havnt been dtd atm just incase causes any harm and she basically stuck some sort of machine in and opened my foof the biggest she could! May aswell of dtd!
Bobble I Had bleeding in last oregnancy which was cervical ectropian (nothing to do with miscarriage) basically its Cells that have grown on the outside which should be on the inside and when they are irritated (sex, bowel movement) can cause it to bleed, its very strange that there was nothing when you wiped though! I wouldn’t worry about it! Are you sure it was coming from front and not back?
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Ele, my scan is at 1520, so got pretty much the whole day Monday to wait. Of course I'll post a picture, I can't wait for you all to see it. I can't wait to see it. It's starting to all sink in now.
Elexox we had spaghetti carbonara instead because I forgot some ingredients...baby brain kicking in already 😂
Has anyone had any yellow discharge (no smell, not itchy) in early pregnancy, I’ve just had some and last time I did and then started bleeding so I’m really Worried, well I’m in bits tbh, I just called oh to speak to him about it and he sount like he couldn’t care any less ☹️ Now I’m in tears with worry! one day I feel so positive and the next I feel like I’m neber going to have a second child ☹️
Ill Be 8 weeks Saturday
Got a scan for the 19th ladies so hopefully will beable to see something. Midwife thinks i defo did mc last time as i then had a negative pt. Wish you all well ladies xx
Hi Narla. Congratulations on your bfp! Try not to worry too much about symptoms. The fact your line came up quickly is great. Also I get the guilty feeling but try not to worry about this. It's normal to still grieve the baby you have lost. You'll never forget them but also remember that this baby is a blessing and a little ray of hope for you.
Missmum2 I agree with the others, I'd go and get some bloods done to try and work out dates etc. 🤞 all works out well for you and you have a super sticky bean in there.
Mummytolily we've bought a few pieces of clothing and have ordered the cot and nursery furniture. Currently trying to decide between wallpapers for a feature walk in the nursery but torn between 4 different ones.
Elexox glad to hear baby girl is doing well. It's cold here too in the North West but no snow. Frost and ice this morning though. I just wanted to get back into bed this morning. In fact I did for 10-15mins haha. I keep saying I thought pregnant people were meant to be hot - certainly not my case haha.
Mrs Fish glad to hear you're doing well. I reckon you're definitely a 💗 and oh dear 🙈 hope they sort their differences out soon haha. Young love is definitely more dramatic lol.
Slinky how exciting about your scan! Not too long to wait now. Hope all goes well. I'l be checking all Monday for your update!
I think that's me all caught up now 😘
Mummytolily try not to worry too much. I'e had increased discharge since finding out. Mot necessarily yellow but we are all different. Try not to stress and as for OH, he might just be trying to be positive about it all and try not to dwell on things. I'm sure if something did actually happen (wish I hope and pray won't, and I'm sure it won't) he'd be really supportive xx
Lisil, it’s hard to explain it’s not like yellow but just yellow tinged slightly, I know im over reacting, I never had any worries with my first pregnancy! I think I spend to much time thinking of what could go wrong atm and every tiny little thing points to a miscarriage in my mind even things that I know are completely normal, I literally tire myself out with worry
Hi ladies!
Mummytolily ive had this today only slightly tinged and only noticed as had white knicka on, searched it and irs entirly normal, could be a sign of a yeast infection but most likely a side effect from pregnancy vitamins!
Hope youre not panicking still xx
Slinky, yay can't wait to have a peek! Just chat away to us if the day drags hahaha!
Mummytolily, mmmm that sounds lush! Don't cry 🤗 I've had all sorts of dc since my bfp! I posted on my DD page about a thick horrid green/yellow tinged dc only last week! MV said it's all normal and to expect all kinds of dc as long as it's not itchy/smell down there it's all fine 😁 Ride the rollercoaster, I know it's awful I want to get off too but you will get your second child! Men don't really know how to deal with these "women problems", he sounds like how my OH would deal with it... he's probably just as worried about another loss as you are! My OH didn't even want to talk about this pregnancy until after 12 weeks. The dc might even be your cervix sealing shut and the plug starting to form! If you're still really concerned or upset, see your doctor, they are normally happy to help and a health professional may ease your worries. I know the feeling Hun, heck I'm 26 weeks and I'm still stressing and worrying every single day! Not a day passes where I don't worry about losing her, it's all normal and that's why this page exists so we can support each other ❤️ One of the hardest things I've been through in life so far is pregnancy after a loss! I'm sure many will agree. Remember you HAVE to focus on what is going right, you will give yourself a headache all day if you point things to mc. I so flippin know how you feel, this was me 5/6 months ago 😩 I just want to give you a big hug and promise everything will be ok, of course no one can promise that but we have to onto hope and faith 🌈❤️
Missmum, that's great news! Do come back and update us all 😁 How many weeks will you be by then? (I know it might not be exact but a rough estimate?)
Thanks lisil, tell me about it! Bloody freezing 😩 I thought pregnant people were supposed to be hot too! Although take it from me, I had an August baby last time june and July were not fun heavily pregnant. Luckily for the ladies due in the summer this time, we don't really have real long hot summers anymore, maybe that's a bit pessimistic of me 😂🙈
I will only be i think 6 weeks. But im hoping the can see something x
Ele, I'm due in June. Lovely summer baby 👶
Bobble thank you! I’m glad it’s not just me! It’s definitely not smelly (my sense of smell is through the roof id be heaving otherwise 😂) & it’s not itchy so fingers crossed! I haven’t had any more since but if i get anymore I’ll call the doctor! How many weeks are you now? I don’t know if you’ve thought of this yet 😂 but August is such a good month to have a baby (lilys birthday is 23rd August) that you get to spend every single one of there birthdays with them as they’ll never be at school!
Elexox can I get a little mini you to keep in my pocket? I swear You always know the right things to say! i know You’re right, I’m glad it’s not just me that experienced it, I’ve had no more since! I literally can’t remember anything with the first 20 weeks of lilys pregnancy so can’t remember what was normal with her itll actually be 4 years ago in 10 days time that I got my bfp with her! Feels so much longer ago!
Me & oh have managed to find a day to go to the scan have just had to get my mum to pick lily up from playschool but we will book it for the 14th december so I should be 9 weeks 5 days then
so 2 weeks today!
Im 5 + 1
Skitzing terrible today as last mc was on this day, stupidly checked cervix and no worried that it doesnt seem high
proper panicking now xx
Oh bobble that must be really tough for you today! But hey the days nearly over and you & baby are fine! i Woudnt know what I was looking for with cervix unfortunately so can’t help you there
Ive sent OH for a test to make me feel better! Ive been a nervous wreck all day xx
Elexox I have my 20 week scan nx Wednesday - it seem to have taken forever to come round, as I had been having them every 2-3 weeks, this one has been 5 weeks!! It is nearer 21 weeks, I then have my 24 week scan 3 weeks later on 28th - I think they will start to plan delivery at this stage, so will find out Twin 2 has been absorbed if I can go natural or if still there prob C section!
Mummytolily, I had a lot of yellow when i wipe, I thought it was more because my wee was very yellow - not sure if that is a helpful comment or not! However, I had a lot of increased discharge throughout, which apparently is quite normal. The anxiety is so hard to deal with, you will panic over everything - I still do 😔 And even worse I had my anxiety and negative thoughts confirmed with the loss of one of my angels. However, you have to try and keep positive and strong throughout, rather than dwelling on what was/could go wrong, try to answer back in your head with positive manteas and thoughts - sounds silly I know, but does help xx
Hi @Elexox, no I have a 7 year old so it’s been a while! That’s why I am worrying, I remember getting early symptoms then and with the last pregnancy (miscarriage).
Saying that I have been a little crampy today which is good, and mega tired! I think I am 5 weeks so it’s still really early days.
How far along are you? Is this your first pregnancy?
Bobble how did your test come back? A nice strong positive?
Mrs fish haha that is a very helpful comment! Thank you Mrs fish I will definitely try that! Hopefully it works! I’m 8 weeks tomorrow so only another 5 to go and I’ll be at my miscarriage gestation! Fingers crossed
Missmum, yes you will see the gestational sac (like a black hole) and possible a ring structure inside that which is the yolk sac but no everyones is visible. You may even see the tiny little baby forming 😁
Slinky, Oooo lovely nice and warm!
Mummytolily, ahh my LB is the 4th of August and you're right it's lovely having them all to yourself on their birthday every single year! 🎉 Aww you're so sweet, just remember to stay positive and allow yourself to have bad days! Glad you managed to sort a scan day, here's to counting down the next 2 weeks! 😁
Bobble, happy 5 weeks! Sorry you've had a tough day, it's not nice reliving the mc day. Your cervical position will be ALL over the place atm. Just before I got my bfp, my cervix was hard and the lowest I'd ever felt it! I was convinced AF was about to arrive but I got my vvvvfl instead! Dont stress, it can take a month sometimes even two before the cervix rises high, goes soft and tightly closes for some women. It's probably a good idea to stop checking now as it'll only stress you out 🤗
Mrsfish, how exciting! Sorry I forgot you hadn't had it yet. Fingers crossed they'll confirm girl for you and that she's as happy and healthy as ever! 💗 I admire your remarkable strength, what a woman to be pressing on through everything that's happened. You are a very strong lady!
Narla, aww lovely... boy or girl? I have a 6 year old son so it's been a while for me too lol! Happy 5 weeks to you too! No this will be my third pregnancy but second baby as i had a mc last year November and took us 7 months to fall again with this rainbow. I had a messed up cycle after my mc and wasn't having periods for 4 months after and then not ovulating at all. I'm pretty sure this baby was the first time I ovulated since my mc! Doctors and specialists couldnt find anything physically wrong and were just as confused as I was! But alas, Im growing our darling girl 💗🌈👶🏻
Spent my night in AE with bleeding was really wierd, i wear scrubs but had black knicks on today had slight blood marks on trousers on changing to come home, went to toilet asap and had wee wiped etc and nothing there, nothing since either. Gynae reg seen me and did physical exam neck of womb still shut and no blood present so theyve said for scan in one week at epu so ill be 6+2 by then
Only other thing is i have cyst down there, longstanding issue sometimes ger sebacious cysts down knicker line if unwell or run down, OH thinks it might be one of those bleeding, i dont know if that would be enough to go on onto work trousers though! Just dont undeestand nothing being there when wiping at all.
Laughing cos me and oh havnt been dtd atm just incase causes any harm and she basically stuck some sort of machine in and opened my foof the biggest she could! May aswell of dtd!
Anyone had anythinf similar ?
Xxx
Bobble I Had bleeding in last oregnancy which was cervical ectropian (nothing to do with miscarriage) basically its Cells that have grown on the outside which should be on the inside and when they are irritated (sex, bowel movement) can cause it to bleed, its very strange that there was nothing when you wiped though! I wouldn’t worry about it! Are you sure it was coming from front and not back?