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People keep trying to put hubby off!!!!!!
Bit of a rant, but why do people insist on telling my hubby all the negative aspects of being a parent? I'm 34wks, this is my second child but his first. He can't wait for her to arrive, he's so excited & says he won't let people put him off, but I just wish they'd stop putting a downer on it! I suppose it's kind of like women who only ever want to talk about the horrific side of childbirth!!
Yes, it's hard work, but surely we wouldn't keep doing it if it was that bad?!?!
Yes, it's hard work, but surely we wouldn't keep doing it if it was that bad?!?!
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my oh is still more excited than i am an i think thats the main thing,
hehe sorry i just ranted back, feel better for it though, xxx
Claudia 32+2
i too have a thing about people who only talk about the bad side of childbirth, yes it is sore obviously, but its worth it, and why try to scare others!!! i just try to avoid other peoples scary birth stories, cause it isnt always bad, and like you say, why do they do again then if its that bad ?!LOL x
im trying to get him to understand abit about the birth and as hes my birth partner and have even printed off sheets on how to change a nappy, make a bottle and bath a baby!
im going to ask him tonight if any of his work mates have been trying to put him off as i know that they would!
xx
people trying to put him off, is just like people who try to tell first time mothers how bad it will be, and how much hard work it will be.
he will hopefully not listen adn when the lo is born you will be a lovely happy family and he will see that its all worth it x