how do i tell him i dont want s-e-x?
am 8 weeks pregnant on monday and have been feeling really very sick. worse than my first pregnancy. i've told my husband that I dont want to have sex as i feel over the top sick and exhausted but still he thinks is ok to ask. but i still feel sick and reallydont want to do it. please please help.
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I went through a faze of feeling like that, but lately i have been more interested again. I found that even when i was too tired, once my hubby got me in the mood i enjoyed it again lol
Now i am feeling more in the mood for sex again and love being close to my hubby more than anything and hes enjoying me being interested again lol. It is getting more uncomfy ie-positions etc, but were working out ways of doing it easier lol
Im sure it will pass lol
Sharon x
Why dont you tell him you should feel less sick after the first trimester and its less risk of miscarriage after 12 weeks.
I dont really think its that much of a risk to be honest and its only advised against if you have had bleeding or previous miscarriage so if you are going to please dont worry. (I'd hate to think i made someone worry).
But it is something that some people think so your hubby might think thats fine. My best mate is now 18 weeks pregnant and she has only had sex once since she found out and her hubby is fine. Mine has been ok that i've only done it once in the last 3 weeks (altho i think he's gagging at the moment as he's been dropping hints all day)!! Sorry about the TMI!!
i guess it would be hard if two people feel differently. in the beginning nothing changed we had sex alot, but since around 2 mths this has cahnged and im fine with it.