Advice needed fom you ladies!
I have a little dilemma. I haven't told my oldest friend I am having a baby and am not sure what to do! I haven't heard from her since September last year. I've texted a few times but got no reply and I've sent xmas card and birthday card and still no reply. We last saw each other when we went out for lunch last August. To my knowledge we haven't fallen out and I can't think of anything else I could have done! I don't want to not say anything and bump into her in town come July while pushing a pram! Might be a little awkward but equallyI don't want to text out of the blue and say hello I'm 6 months pregnant. She was my bridesmaid at my wedding and we used to be really close, but I sometimes feel that my life changed when I got married and got a house etc. She still lives at home, goes out on the pull and buys whatever bags/shoes/clothes she wants without a care! I don't know if she felt that I was getting settled and she wasn't. Once we left uni I knew what I wanted to do but she didn't and has drifted from job to job. Anyway my mum thinks I should get in touch but hubby is undecided. He agrees with me it's odd we haven't heard from her and that she hasn't replied to any texts etc yet he's worried that if we just bump into her it will be worse. I'm so unsure what to do. I mean I don't think I would be pleased if I hadn't been told but then I hate the thought of just texting out of the blue. Argh!!!!!