I feel awful, am I am bitch?
Am going to try and cut this story as short as possible. My mil lives 120 miles away and does nothing and I mean nothing. She already has 2 grandchildren who she has never really made an effort with and on the very rare occasion she visits (about once a year) she spends money as compensation for being a crap nanny. She is also one of the most annoying people I have ever met, as she does nothing she has nothing to talk about so repeats herself over and over. An hour in her company drives you insane. Well im now pregnant and my husband is the blue eyed boy....she now wants to come and visit us even though we have no space, she said she'll sleep on the floor!! My bil & sil will go crazy as she has never offered to visit them, she has always been pestered....but....I dont want her to stay....my hormones and mood swings will not cope and have told my husband no....he's just hung up on me in a snot. I feel awful and know I am a bitch but cant help it! Anyway why should we be treated any different.....plus it will cause arguements with my husband and his brother. Should I give in or stick to my guns. Sorry for rant but just dont know what to do xxxxx