Fran I'm really sorry to hear your sad news, it is one of the hardest things to bear. I went thru 2 mmc last year and it took a lot out of my oh and I. I got loads of support from the support site, they helped me through some really tough times and would recommend it.
Thinking of you hon, take some time to grieve and recover, you will know when your ready to try again, no-one else. thinking of you and sending a big hug. Jac xxx 36+2
I'm so sorry to hear you lost your baby through miscarriage. I went through similar loss last August due to missed miscarriage. My baby was 12 weeks when it died and I only found out at my routine first scan. It has been the hardest thing I've experienced in my life so far. The only advice I can give is talk to people about it, if not friends and family, your partner. Take time to grieve, the biggest mistake I made was trying to carry on as normal and put it behind me and be positive about the future, but grief got me in the end and once I acknowledged me grief and let it out, I have come along way. I have just found out this week I am pregnant again, only 4 weeks, and I am afraid to be happy about it as I just dont know what lies ahead or whether this baby will stay with me or not. I can only take one day at a time and be positive. Anyway, again I am so sorry for your loss and wish you all the strength and courage you need to get through the next few days and weeks. My thoughts are with you.
Fran - I don't know whether you will read this.. but I am so sorry to hear your news.. I will be thinking of you today... and hope you have a speedy recovery... And I hope to see us both back on this site very soon.. Take care of yourself.. Annabel xx
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I'm really sorry to hear your sad news, it is one of the hardest things to bear.
I went thru 2 mmc last year and it took a lot out of my oh and I. I got loads of support from the support site, they helped me through some really tough times and would recommend it.
Thinking of you hon, take some time to grieve and recover, you will know when your ready to try again, no-one else.
thinking of you and sending a big hug.
Jac
xxx
36+2
Filo x
Spark
xx
I'm so sorry to hear you lost your baby through miscarriage. I went through similar loss last August due to missed miscarriage. My baby was 12 weeks when it died and I only found out at my routine first scan. It has been the hardest thing I've experienced in my life so far. The only advice I can give is talk to people about it, if not friends and family, your partner. Take time to grieve, the biggest mistake I made was trying to carry on as normal and put it behind me and be positive about the future, but grief got me in the end and once I acknowledged me grief and let it out, I have come along way. I have just found out this week I am pregnant again, only 4 weeks, and I am afraid to be happy about it as I just dont know what lies ahead or whether this baby will stay with me or not. I can only take one day at a time and be positive. Anyway, again I am so sorry for your loss and wish you all the strength and courage you need to get through the next few days and weeks. My thoughts are with you.
Kindest regards,
Welena
I'm sure you'll get lots of support - I did last year and hopefully hear some really good news in the near future.
Hugs
Karenxx
And I hope to see us both back on this site very soon..
Take care of yourself..
Annabel xx