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dads in the delivery room
hi everyone was just wondering what people think of their partners being in the delivery room? how did your oh cope and was he any use or did you scream at him the whole time and did he get in the way? heard of blokes who find sex a bit weird after seeing the birth? What are you all planning to do or have done previously?
Im not due til sept but been talking with oh and he wants to be there right the way through and cut the cord. Im lucky I know that he wants to be involved but I cant help wondering is he going to be more of a hindrance than a help? LOL that sounds awful its just I have been thinking about it loads and i was hoping some of you could share your experiences, pleeease???
Im not due til sept but been talking with oh and he wants to be there right the way through and cut the cord. Im lucky I know that he wants to be involved but I cant help wondering is he going to be more of a hindrance than a help? LOL that sounds awful its just I have been thinking about it loads and i was hoping some of you could share your experiences, pleeease???
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It's such a personal experience and something you've both git to be happy with but the look on my husbands face when hes cradleing our newborn makes it all so special.:\)
I was fretting mostly because I have heard some horror stories but it sounds like the majority of you have had good experiences.Im a worrier anyway I worry bout everything and anything! think i would like oh to be up near my head but to be honest i reckon at the time i wont care!!!
had a motorbike accident a few years ago was all gory and horrible (wont go into details here!) and he was actually brilliant so i am going to try to stop fretting over it!
lol lardarse!
thankyou all for your replys!!! xx