sex!!!!!!!!!!!
right well me and oh have just done it but for the past week or so ive been findin it hard to get 'wet' which annoys me lol so have to get lube out but to top it all off ive started to get a bump now and that puts oh off totally and im so bloody frustrated to say the least any 1 else have/had this prob?????? sorry if tmi
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Havent found bump in the way as havent got much of one! But apparently you shouldnt lie on your back when past the first trimester, try different positions out. At first I found some positions we both enjoyed slightly painful so have now changed and found others we really enjoy
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Try both of you laying on you sides and him taking you from behind and holding one of your legs in the air, he then won't be able to see your bump and you get quite good penatration.
Sorry if that was all way too much tmi
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I read in my book it is due to blood vessels swelling up and making you 'tighter'. I guess after the baby that'll be a good thing but rite now it's irritating!
My oh isn't really bothered about my bump. It doesn't put him off, but he's not really attracted by it either...He says it's 'nice' but not sexy. Fair enough I suppose!
Philippa, 23+4 x x x
i would absolutely hate to be in your position as i have very low self esteen at the moment and if my oh said that it would just kill me..one idea may be to wear a slinky top to cover your bump but so it can still be pulled down a bit etc for access to boobs etc but so your bump is not so obvious to him..i do this as i am very concious about bump during sex, altho oh doesnt seem to bother, but it helped my confidence.
please try not o take it to hart, i read in my mags that some guys can be put off, cause there is a baby in there, as wel as some women...perhaps you could do other things other than full sex tho to keep things spiced up. good luck x
We do have sex, and I am showing already so I have found the best way to manage it is the spooning position. comfortable, and still as exciting as before.
just need to hang on then for another 7 weeks or so!!