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advice wanted please!

Hi
I'm 13+1 my o/h has 3 kids already from previous relationships (14, 9 and 3 yrs of age).
The children live in Scunthorpe which is a 3 hour drive from me, my o/h works away and goes to Scunthorpe every other weekend, I've asked him if he could the kids down here once in awhile as the travelling up there is pretty tiring, but he refused as he's not aloud the 3 yr old overnight. Am I being selfish? As in a few months time I'm not really gonna wanna travel up there.
x Thanks

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  • hey leigh no i dont think your being selfish he has to involve you in his arrangements, they have to suit you both as a couple during this period. its not like you're being unsupportive to him i think its great you go with him, but you'll feel like you need that extra bit of attention and if you dont tlk things thru now you might start gettin frustrated wit eachother! im sure u can come to an amicable arrangement! =) good luck hun xxx
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