FAO Slippers

Oh no, oh no, oh no, I just can't bear it... I had just logged on to answer your lovely email you sent me last week... haven't felt like coming on here since my last miscarriage... and I just can't believe what you have written... Slippers I am so so desperately sorry.... I say these words from the bottom of my heart... I just can't bear it for you, for us all who are on here... we all know the desperate feeling of emptness... after we have lost a much loved and wanted bean... but putting it into words to comfort a friend is the hardest thing to do... Just remember we are here to help and support you in anyway we possible can... we are faceless friends if that makes sense... Promise me you will take great care of yourself...and of course your husband too as it affects them just as much as it does us, they just don't have the physical loss but the emotional loss is just as real and as powerful.

When you are ready - let me tell you about a Herbalist I am seeing.... he specialises in Chinese Herbs and is very interesting about miscarriage...

Perhaps you might like to contact me not via BE if you do feel free to use my home email - [email protected] - - sometimes its hard to come onto BE after what you are going through...

With warm regards and do take care of yourself...

Annabel

p.s... one of your replies you got was from a girl names Hhobby... we have been on BE togetther for about a year... and email each other privately now... we have got to know each other quite well over the course of a year.... I just can't believe she has just lost another...its just heart breaking that we all have to go through such missery in order to achieve what we crave so much...

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  • Hello sweetie, thank you so much again for your lovely, kind words of support, you have been an absolute gem and a complete rock to me. You just know my pain and I know yours, and it does provide a bond, albeit a sad one, but more than that, you make me feel calm and positive again and that's nothing short of a bloomin miracle at the mo!

    I will definitely drop you an email as I am very intrested in the herbalist you mentioned...I am interested in anything that can somehow help us to finally have babies of our own.

    Thanks again for logging on when things have been so tough for you, you're a very generous lady. Speak soon and give my love to Helen if you're in touch with her, tell her I am so, so sorry for her loss xxx
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