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SCARED AND CONFUSED
Can some1 please help me i was about 14 weeks pregnant when i had my ultrasound last week and they told me that i had a missed miscarriage. I thought it was a wired pregnacy to start with as i had no morning sickness. I was told that i couldnt have kids after they found out i had polysistic overies. All i could taste in the last couple of weeks is metal. I still feel move ments in my belly and im really tired. this was the first time i have ever herd of a missed misscarriage. As it has only been a few days I have still had no bleeding and feel quiet fine. Except that all i want is my baby back. And Has any 1 had troubles of falling pregnant again after they have had a missed misscarriage. PLEASE WRITE AND LET ME NO IM SCARED AND CONFUSED. MISS_NESS
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Sorry to read about your experiences. I had a missed miscarriage on the 1st June. You can read our posts on the missed miscarriage help forum. It really helped me.
For a number of weeks after my mmc I had strange movements in my tummy which I think was my bowel...I have IBS and think the emotional upset caused some spasms.
I had an ERPC (D and C) on the 4th June and have been thru a whole range of feelings and emotions.
I was almost 12wks when I found out and my baby had stopped growing at 7wks and I had not started bleeding at all, so it can be a long process to wait.
Please don not feel scared as you will get thru this....it is hard right now but day by day you will make sense of things.
Love Sian XX
i also had no morning sickness and at my 12wk scan was told baby had stopped growing at 10wks. its so hard to understand and accept.
i never had any bleeding and went for erpc a wk later.
have you arrange to go into hospital or see your dr?
take it easy and feel free to come on anytime to talk, rant etc.
thinking of you becs xxx
things will get better.
love becs x
Really sorry to read your post. It happened to me in April. My advice is to ask for another scan and get them to show you everything on the screen. She showed me exactly why the pg had definitely failed in my 2nd scan and this reassured me that they hadn't got it wrong (absence of fetus, thin membrane on pregnancy sac, wobbly banana shaped sac rather than strong roung sac etc.) .
I hope this give you some hope - I'm pregnant again already. We left it for one month for an AF then I became pg in the first month of trying. I know we're very lucky but a lot of people have said you're more fertile in the months after a MC.
Good luck hun, Jo x
I too was like that...especially as all my clothes were still tight around my belly, even though I might have had 2 uteruses and the baby was really in the other one!
It is a natural reaction to think what have I done? or what did I do wrong? I went thru all sorts of possible reasons...did I have the bath too hot? Was it because I was constipated? Was it because of my thyroid problem? Was it because I had a vodka one night before I knew I was preg? All sort of possibles. My OH said to me there could be 1001 reasons and we will never know why so stop punishing yourself and as time has gone by I have accepted we will never know why it happened and have to believe it happened because there was a problem and it was not meant to be this time.
I bought some books about miscarriage and why it happens and a self help guide to read. These books helped me greatly as it explains the emotions you go thru. Denial, anger, depression and acceptance...still I flit between them all, one day angry and then depressed another day but at least i know they are to be expected.
Keep telling us how you are feeling!
Lots of love...know how you feel and it does get better.
Sian XX
lots of love, laura. xxxx