can i do this or not
my bf split up with me wen i first found out i was pregnant. im now 11wks pregnant and he is making my life like hell saying ill take u to court about the baby and also have dna done.
Then days later he says he dont want nothing to with the baby. Its been like this about 4 times now, he keeps changing my mind its not helpin me at all, as its just stressin me out.
i rather just bring this baby up on my own, it will be less hassle. but i know im goin to hav my surname for the baby
but is that possiable can i stop him in any way from seein the baby or is that wrong?
please advise me what i can do?
Then days later he says he dont want nothing to with the baby. Its been like this about 4 times now, he keeps changing my mind its not helpin me at all, as its just stressin me out.
i rather just bring this baby up on my own, it will be less hassle. but i know im goin to hav my surname for the baby
but is that possiable can i stop him in any way from seein the baby or is that wrong?
please advise me what i can do?
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Obviousely I dont know the full extent of why your relationship broke up but it sounds like he is being unfair and messing with your emotions. I presume it did not end amicably? Do you think he is wanting to get back with you and is being so irrational because of it? I think it is to early to be discussing preventing him from having access to child. If the child is his and he pulls his socks up and wants to care for him or her then unless the situation is untenable ie. he is violent or the child would be a risk I think you should try and give him the opportunity to be a father to his child. Please dont do what he seems to be doing and using your pregnancy as emotional leverage.
Get some space then try and talk again with a third party present if it helps to keep the situation calm
Hope you work it out hun sounds tense for you right now x
take care becca x x