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I dont know if I am being unreasonable or hormonal. Hopefully you all can enlighten me...
Lo is 3 and a half months old now. I feel like hubby has not done his share and it is really ticking me off. I know I am on maternity leave so it is my job to care for lo and I love doing it. He works 9-5 Mon-Fri. And is so adament on going to his Muay Thai training every Tues, Thurs and Saturday. I feel that this leaves me with less help since the days he doesn't go, he usually sits in front of the tv and I have to cook and clean up after him. On his training days during the week, he isn't home until 830pm. And on Saturdays, he goes for a few hours at noon. I have had to sacrifice my social life, I can't go work out whenever i want, or do things i want and I am so bitter that he can just continue on like when he wasn't a father. I've asked him if i can go snowboarding or out with friends and he always gives me a hard time if i am gone more than a couple hours. If he helped around the house, or didn't act so lazy I don't think his training days would be an issue. I just feel it isn't fair for me. Then again, I know the responsiblity of baby is much more on mom than dad. Am i being crazy to feel this way?:\? The days we argue about this, he leaves and stays at his office and doesn't even help take care of lo for days. I'm so bitter.
Lo is 3 and a half months old now. I feel like hubby has not done his share and it is really ticking me off. I know I am on maternity leave so it is my job to care for lo and I love doing it. He works 9-5 Mon-Fri. And is so adament on going to his Muay Thai training every Tues, Thurs and Saturday. I feel that this leaves me with less help since the days he doesn't go, he usually sits in front of the tv and I have to cook and clean up after him. On his training days during the week, he isn't home until 830pm. And on Saturdays, he goes for a few hours at noon. I have had to sacrifice my social life, I can't go work out whenever i want, or do things i want and I am so bitter that he can just continue on like when he wasn't a father. I've asked him if i can go snowboarding or out with friends and he always gives me a hard time if i am gone more than a couple hours. If he helped around the house, or didn't act so lazy I don't think his training days would be an issue. I just feel it isn't fair for me. Then again, I know the responsiblity of baby is much more on mom than dad. Am i being crazy to feel this way?:\? The days we argue about this, he leaves and stays at his office and doesn't even help take care of lo for days. I'm so bitter.
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good luck hon, really hope you sort things out x
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