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Affectionless
My partner and I have a lovely baby but she has absolutely no affection or love for me any more. I've tried talking about why she has been treating me like this but every time I do she tells me to shut up and change the record. I'm really heart broken and don't know what to do.
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every woman is different so it's hard to give a perspective on someone you don't know. i just know that when i got pregnant and gave birth, my head went west and i wasn't always the nicest person i could be and i needed treating with kid gloves. even small comments felt like people getting on my case, everything was out of proportion.
good luck with everything, hope you get it all sorted. take care xx
It doesnt last for ever and some balance does return, although things are never quite the same as before - they are better in so many ways. Am sure your partner does still love you, its just that she might not have the room in her head to be as she was with you before the baby was born.
Try to be patient, give her some space like Deidre says, enjoy the time you have as a new family with a small baby. This bit doesnt last for ever!!
Good luck!
Allow the time to adjust to having a new addition around, they grow so fast. As baby gets older and naps last longer you'll hopefully recover some of the time for you and your partner alone as a couple. Best wishes.